Some of the old ways of dating could be use an upgrade. Welcome 2014 with these new and improved rules!
For most of us, the best--and usually our first--source of our dating conselhos is our family. We rely on the experiences and wise words of Mom, Sister, and in some cases even Grandmother, for the do's and don'ts of boys and relationships. But as years pass by, it might be time to rule out some of Mom's and Grandma's old (and old-fashioned) rules on dating and come up with reasonable guidelines that appeal to mais modern minds.
The Old Way:
~Date only boys who belong to your círculo of friends.
The New Way:
~While there is some comfort in going out with guys you've known since grade school, remember that the whole point is dating is to get to know new people. The spirit of the new decade is overcoming boundaries, and a great way to take part in it is por dating outside your usual "type" or group. For instance, just because you're a computer geek, it doesn't mean that you can't go out with a cute basquetebol, basquete player. All it takes is a little confident. If Troy and Gabriella from High School Musical or Rachel and Finn from Glee were able to do it, why can't you?
The Old Way:
~Wait por the phone for him to call to ask you out.
The New Way:
~The old saying, "Never call a boy first", may have been right during your grandmother's time, but with all the ways of communication available now, it seems silly not to drop him any hints that you're interested. Text him, chat him over Yahoo Messenger, leave a message on his facebook Wall, or mention him on Twitter. You don't have to ask him out straight up if you're not comfortable with it, but it's okay to remind him that you're around if he wants to hang out.
The Old Way:
~Ask him to pick you up from your house.
The New Way:
~Sure, there's still some merit to having a guy show up at your doorstep, then drop you off after the encontro, data for a possible Hollywood-style goodnight kiss. But there's also no reason why you can't meet him at a public place, like the restaurant where you plan to have jantar or the bowling alley where you intended to hang out. Arriving and leaving on your own saves time---and it helps you avoid an awkward drive início if the encontro, data goes sour.
The Old Way:
~Just have a jantar and watch movie.
The New Way:
~It's not the 50's anymore---dating doesn't have to mean jantar and movie all the time. Though it's great to share a meal and see a cool flick, there are tons of other fun activities you can do together without spending too much like playing at the park, bowling, ice skating and many more. You can even bring some mutual friends along to avoid any uncomfortable first-date experience moments. embrulho, envoltório up the dia (or night) at a quiet coffee comprar so you can grab a bite, talk about your adventures together, and get to know each other in peace.
The Old Way:
~Sit pretty and let him make all the decisions.
The New Way:
~The days when girls were not much mais than decoration for the jantar mesa, tabela are long gone. Most of the guys like girls who think for themselves, and who can churn out mais than just, "Anywhere you want, it's up to you" in response to the question, "So, where do you want to go?" Feel free to suggest a restaurant you amor or an activity you find interesting. Your encontro, data will appreciate your sharing the pressure of decision-making and will respect you mais for it.
The Old Way:
~Turn away all his compliments so you won't seem too eager or mayabang.
The New Way:
~One of the most common compliments among guys is that girl's can't seem to take a compliment. There's no need for you to bring yourself down or tell him, "You're just saying that." Accept his praise with grace! Nine times out of 10, he's telling the truth and you know it. A simple "Thank you" will show that you're confident and comfortable with your self---plus, he'll appreciate being thanked for noticing how nice you look in your dress or how much pretty you are.
The Old Way:
~Introduce your encontro, data to your parents first.
The New Way:
~While your parents' opinions definitely matter, putting your guy in the hot assento too soon exerts unnecessary pressure on the relationship. A guy who doesn't know you that well may not yet be ready for your Mom's loaded statements and your Dad's underhanded threats. It's best to wait for things to become serious before bringing him início to your family. It also helps you avoid all the awkward perguntas when things end before they can truly begin.
The Old Way:
~Expect fireworks and romance on a one-on-one date.
The New Way:
~These days, there's a huge difference between a friendly date and a date-date. A guy won't break out the flowers, chocolates, and sweet gestures right away. Chances are, he'll call it "hanging out" and fall a few notches sort of The Perfect Gentleman In Your Head. The modern girl knows not to expect too much from a single date---and knows that chemistry and attraction can never be forced.
The Classics:
While some rules evolved overtime, there are still etched in the stone.
1.Be your self:
~Put your best foot forward, but make sure you stay true to who you are. Never lie to impress.
2.Be on time:
~We know you want to be fashionably late, but keeping him waiting any longer than 15 minutos is just a plain rude.
3.Wear an appropriate amount of makeup:
~It's a date, not a Dia das bruxas party! Simplicity is the key.
4.Don't spend the encontro, data texting, tweeting, or Facebooking:
~Focus your attention on your encontro, data and leave the social networking for later!
5.Avoid talking about other boys:
~He especially doesn't want to hear about how much you misses your ex or how cute or handsome your classmate or neighbor is.
6.Be a good listener:
~It's okay to talk about yourself, but make sure to ask him perguntas and listen to his stories as well.
7.Don't nag:
~He'll appreciate if you call or text a few days after the encontro, data to thank him and say you had fun, but don't harass him the seguinte week or panic if he doesn't respond immediately.
8.Don't lead him on:
~If you realize you're not as interested in him as you thought, politely let him know when he asks you out again. It may upset him at first, but he'll surely appreciate your honestly in the long run.
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whos w/ me?
amor all around
-Jordan
Another problem thats spreading on Fanpop. The problem is that people keep reporting people for dumb reasons. For example my friend some people reported her because she didnt agree with them and thats wrong. Like what happened to ''We are a big fanpop family''?. That doesnt even matter anymore does it ? Just when somebody makes you mad or doesnt agree with your point of view you just denunciar them and thats just a whole bunch of bullshit. Like for real handle reporting responsibly if someone makes you mad keep going on with life if someone doesnt agree with your view point just accept dont denunciar thm. Because we are a big family and we dont denunciar or block family we care and show amor for them and YES we all argue its natural but just to denunciar someone is taking it too far
PLZ STOP IT!!
whos w/ me?
amor all around
-Jordan
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Ring a Ring a Rosies,
a pocket full of posies
ATISHOO ATISHOO, we all fall down
Known to be a song about a ring of roses, little children cantar in a row, then you sneeze and you fall down. Did you ever play that game as a young child? Hold hands and dance in a circle?
Now for the reality.
This nursery rhyme is about the Black Plague.
Ring a ring a rosies - you used to have large pinky red circles on your skin, this is how you knew you had the plague.
A pocket full of posies - People used to hold posies up to their nose to keep the smell of death away. They also believed that it would keep the plague away. (didn't work)
Atishoo Atishoo we all fall down - you know what THAT means? if not that, people would sneeze and cough and you'd know that OHMYGOD WERE DYING! And you'd all fall down (basically, you've popped your clogs)
Some people think it is a very, haunting, creepy song if sung in a certain way other than the cheerful way.
Randomness lol.
a pocket full of posies
ATISHOO ATISHOO, we all fall down
Known to be a song about a ring of roses, little children cantar in a row, then you sneeze and you fall down. Did you ever play that game as a young child? Hold hands and dance in a circle?
Now for the reality.
This nursery rhyme is about the Black Plague.
Ring a ring a rosies - you used to have large pinky red circles on your skin, this is how you knew you had the plague.
A pocket full of posies - People used to hold posies up to their nose to keep the smell of death away. They also believed that it would keep the plague away. (didn't work)
Atishoo Atishoo we all fall down - you know what THAT means? if not that, people would sneeze and cough and you'd know that OHMYGOD WERE DYING! And you'd all fall down (basically, you've popped your clogs)
Some people think it is a very, haunting, creepy song if sung in a certain way other than the cheerful way.
Randomness lol.
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