Enemies and haters can be annoying and their comments and insults can upset you. Learn how to deal with it...
1)If you don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to you or start swearing or being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down or until they talk to you nicely. Some people can be given segundo chances to realize that you aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate you for. But some people just won’t like you in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting you because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend you unless you let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want you to react. So pretend you didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them or give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting you or bothering you in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them or talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of you doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with friends and people who like you for who you are. These people will make you feel mais confident about yourself and you should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as you have good friends por your side.
4)If they start being violent towards you or continue offending you or upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting you and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, you will have to learn to stop being upset por their comments and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If you know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only you can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much mais you can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as you show to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will show them that you are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your friends and they can cool you down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, or make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If you follow the last piece of conselhos with people who are purportedly hostile, you are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. por helping anyone, especially enemies, you may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When you talk to them, think before you talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
1)If you don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to you or start swearing or being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down or until they talk to you nicely. Some people can be given segundo chances to realize that you aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate you for. But some people just won’t like you in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.
2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting you because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend you unless you let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want you to react. So pretend you didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them or give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting you or bothering you in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them or talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of you doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.
3)Surround yourself with friends and people who like you for who you are. These people will make you feel mais confident about yourself and you should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as you have good friends por your side.
4)If they start being violent towards you or continue offending you or upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting you and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, you will have to learn to stop being upset por their comments and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.
5)If you know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only you can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much mais you can do than ignore them.
6)Show them respect as you show to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will show them that you are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your friends and they can cool you down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, or make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.
7)If you follow the last piece of conselhos with people who are purportedly hostile, you are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. por helping anyone, especially enemies, you may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)
8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When you talk to them, think before you talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.
