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How do i braek up with a guy without hurtting him?

Well this really cute boy at school asked me out. Now its been 2 months and the relation ship has gone NO WEAR but i dont want to hurt him at all! HELP!!!!!
 jacobblack45 posted over a year ago
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lilacool said:
Dear jacobblack45,
u cant break up with somone without hurting them but u can break up with them without hurting them MUCH.
so heres wat u shouldn't say:
We'll still be friends.
See u around.
We could stay in touch,hey lemme call u later!(this is good sometimes,but it can also give him the idea that maybe u want to get back with him)

It's also not a good idea to run away if he starts crying,but it's not a good idea to give him a hug either.
here are some things u should say:

We've had an amazing time together but i dont see things working out for us.(also explain why eg. he's clingy,u like somone else etc)
Ur a great person and so am i and it'd be a waste if we gave that up.we should be able to find somone to appriciate us enough ha?

And if he says something,don't look bored and listen to wat he's saying.
after all it's not him that's the heartbreaker and maybe he has something important to tell u.

I'm really sorry i cudnt help mais but this is all i'm SURE of. other things i no arent really reliable...

Lots of amor (hope i helped!!)
ur mate lilacool =)
p.s.that pic under there is a coração (DUH!!). it represents his coração now. his coração is gunna be broken later and all u can do is not be too harsh and sound sincere just to help it not break too much!
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 Dear jacobblack45, u cant break up with somone without hurting them but u can break up with them without hurting them MUCH. so heres wat u shouldn't say: We'll still be friends. See u around. We could stay in touch,hey lemme call u later!(this is good sometimes,but it can also give him the idea that maybe u want to get back with him) It's also not a good idea to run away if he starts crying,but it's not a good idea to give him a hug either. here are some things u should say: We've had an amazing time together but i dont see things working out for us.(also explain why eg. he's clingy,u like somone else etc) Ur a great person and so am i and it'd be a waste if we gave that up.we should be able to find somone to appriciate us enough ha? And if he says something,don't look bored and listen to wat he's saying. after all it's not him that's the heartbreaker and maybe he has something important to tell u. I'm really sorry i cudnt help mais but this is all i'm SURE of. other things i no arent really reliable... Lots of amor (hope i helped!!) ur mate lilacool =) p.s.that pic under there is a coração (DUH!!). it represents his coração now. his coração is gunna be broken later and all u can do is not be too harsh and sound sincere just to help it not break too much!
posted over a year ago 
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i'm not that helpful but i'm mais helpful than the others so far!!!=)
lilacool posted over a year ago
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thank you that was soooo helpful =D
jacobblack45 posted over a year ago
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ur welcome! lots of hugs! and u other ppl, see she liked my advice!! =)
lilacool posted over a year ago
orangeturnip said:
if you hurt them , its the only way they can get over you unless they wasnt really into you in the first place!!!
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K5-HOWL said:
I have no idea T_T
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sapherequeen said:
Well, to be honest I don't think there will be a way that someone can break up with someone else without hurting them the least bit.

But what I would suggest you do is to be gentle, sweet, kind, and always put in that you would amor to keep him as a close friend :)
Try to be very sympathetic with his feelings, and with doing this avoid doing or saying anything that you may think would hurt him...

Hope this helps....
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posted over a year ago 
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lol
orangeturnip posted over a year ago
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its up to you if you go for a softly softly approach but im telling you most guys dont get that
orangeturnip posted over a year ago
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agree with sapherequeen
lilacool posted over a year ago
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well yah that could work thxs
jacobblack45 posted over a year ago
amazingXmooses said:
if he really does like you, then it's going to hurt him. but he'll mover on.
that's all there is to it.
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
There's no such thing as a guy who doesen't get hurt after a break up.
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true...but,she can try and be a bit gentle and supportive cos that helps him realise shes not reely a bad person!
lilacool posted over a year ago
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dont change my option P.P
xxXsk8trXxx posted over a year ago
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