yes i have,it feels like i can't stop thinking about that person i keep smiling ,happy to see and sometimes i imagine myself being together as beautiful as it feels but sadly it will never happen i can't describe it as amor because it's not for me it's mais of a strong feeling/attraction mixed feelings > happy strong like to > sad Riku ><><> i never experienced crush that turned into amor so all the crushes i had eventually faded away
I've had a couple. There's Celebrity crushes and aleatório crushes on people. Only one of which has managed to get super strong. That one started tame but grew wildly until it took up prolly over 50% of my mind. I would hear this person mentioned and I would smile. When I was with this person, no amount of crap could really phase me. I was on "cloud nine" if you will.
Still have the crush but now it has kinda the same effect but also the complete opposite.
I have a crush on Mark the Shark- Brody. He's cute and even though we argue or have our down moments, we always make up por the end of the night and talk every day.
Most people have their crush end at the conclusion of a flirtationship. But he still fills my tummy with butterflies, even after years of talking every day.
When I was crushing on the guy that is now my boyfriend, it meant that whenever I was around him I couldn't stop smiling. I'd get borboletas on my way to go see him. I would constantly be thinking about him and telling my friends about anything he did that may show the feeling was mutual lol. I'd panic over little things like adding him on facebook (Riku shoutout yo). I would always put in effort regarding my appearance when I went to see him. I'd get extremely happy whenever he remembered something from a conversation we'd previously had or any small detail about me. I'd start dreaming about him. I was really happy whenever we had alone time. He made me feel very comfortable around him. That's difficult af for me with people. Whenever he suggested something I'd usually try it out so we could talk about it more. Never ran out of things to talk about. Whenever he touched me, because it's part of his job, I would be hyper aware of it.
Crush phase is.... a really distinct feeling lol.
Funnily enough, for background info regarding how did I know it was a crush. Initially, I thought I just really admired the guy. I thought I was just admiring his upbeat personality and his compassion he had for his clients for his work. But as the weeks went por I realised I wasn't just admiring him platonically lol. It was a full blown crush I was lowkey suppressing because I saw him as wayyyy out of my league but he told me he thought I was out of his league :v Boi.
I've had several crushes on people I know,celebs and fictional characters. I normally do not showcase obvious traits of having one. Only people who know me well enough can decipher that mainly because I naturally do not have my emotions on my sleeves unless it's in a controlled environment and even then not always. I dislike showing people what makes me tick if I do not know them and know what they are capable of. A crush for me is just a heightened form of admiration. I don't go head over heels immediately like some people. I'll give said crush mais attention. I'll pay attention and scrutinize everything they say,do,etc to understand them. If I have chosen someone to be a crush,certain prerequisites must be there. Otherwise depending on the analyzation results that person goes in said bubble. "Friends,enemies,etc" Then if the process is a negative leitura for crush. I stop crushing on said person.
posted over a year ago
^Dude we kinda have a similar system?? Y u so much like me on this kind of stuff Blind like... y??? But I was mostly asking this cause I dont really have nor really ever had the traditional crush descrição and story. Cos almost everyone for me starts on the aquaintence plane (maybe higher depending on the circumstances I met them on or if I silently observed them before hand and got a reading) and mover up and down according to how my interactions go with them. If they marked enough good things to even get me to have the idea to consider it, I pretty much analyze if its actually good and plausible and if its worth it and if they seem reliable and if everything seems in order, and THEN they get on the "possible partner" list and thats where pretty much everyone has died cos I get really particular over getting to that area and even mais so going on to actually dating. But honestly no where do I really have a crush phase? I only get that a mês or so into actually dating.
I was never really the type to have crushes easily, and when I did it was pretty hardcore and lasted for years. I think I only have ever had like 3 crushes on existing people my whole life and that includes my now-husband.
As for how I knew? Each crush was distinctly a different feeling, so it's kind of hard to say. But like I said it was always kind of hardcore and pretty damn easy to tell and I've never been able to hide them very well...
I did sometimes get people insisting that I had a crush on someone I didn't though, so I guess that's kind of odd.
I've had many, many crushes in my short lifetime. It's difficult to describe what I was feeling because it just doesn't feel... rational.
For me, when I really like someone I just know. I feel this weird magnetic pull and I feel like I have to be around them, even if I'm too shy to approach them. I look progressivo, para a frente to every time we're in the same room together, even if we don't even talk. It's this hormonal thing and I feel like I have to lowkey mark my territory without really knowing why. Hormones, man. Ugh.
