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i feel like im being stalked. advice?

ok there is a guy at work, a customer who has always been complementing me and saying that he would put a good word in for me for promotions or future jobs and stuff. but then, recently he jjust turned around and said: "will you marry me?" to me and that really scared me. first off, i have a boyfriend and second, this guy is really creepy. help? what should i do? i only have a bike to escape with should this go any further.

How old is this creeper guy?

sarabeara posted over a year ago

idk, but he looks to be in his mid 30s. im 19

Snugglebum posted over a year ago

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Well then tell your parents as well as your boss! They'll help keep the guy away from you and also help you get a restraining order.

sarabeara posted over a year ago

Snugglebum posted over a year ago

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bubble_babe said:

Ingor in hun, but if he dosn't stop bugging you or askes you again, get the cops involed

posted over a year ago

sarabeara said:

You need to TELL someone. Mainly your parents and your boss. Get your boss to get rid of him and kick him out seguinte time he makes you feel uncomfortable.

If you feel like this, don't keep it a secret. Some may call you paranoid, but if you're getting to the point where you are asking others for help on fanpop, then that shows this isn't just somthing you're imagining, it's mais serious than that.

Tell the creepy guy himself something like "I don't think that's appropriate" or "please stop. I don't feel comfortable." If he continues after that then get a restraining order against him.

posted over a year ago

what i told him was i already have a boyfriend. he walked away

Snugglebum posted over a year ago

DxCluvr said:

Call the cops,tell your boyfriend,or tell him your not interested. Or tell the manager to.

posted over a year ago

i am afraid to tell the manager, but have told several coworkers

Snugglebum posted over a year ago

Well If he bothers you again you should tell the manager

DxCluvr posted over a year ago

dont be afraid. stand up to the creep. the manager cant help you if he doesn't know. i'd strongly advise you to tell him.

LiilacLottiie94 posted over a year ago

twilight0girl said:

get a restraining order.it might start with the complements (like you said) but end with their being violence.

posted over a year ago

zanesaaomgfan said:

Call 911 and they will help. I've been there before.

This 12 ano old boy saw me at Pathmark and diddn't stop following me. So I called 911 and they arrested him. He followed me EVERWHERE! That guy(boy)Really needs a life!

posted over a year ago

LiilacLottiie94 said:

what you have just told us, you need to tell:
the cops
your family
your parents
your co workers
your manager / boss.
they can all help you keep this guy away. if he comes near you when you're not in work just get on your bike and cycle as fast as you can away from the maddo. people cant run as fast as bikes so you should be fine.
gd luk.
x.x.x.x

posted over a year ago