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EmzLovesCheryl said:
It takes time to become a 'best' friend to somebody. A best friend is somebody is always there, watching your back. Somebody who knows you inside out but loves you anyway. Somebody that you can trust with all your secrets. Somebody that you can sit with in silence without it feeling awkward. Somebody you can discuss anything with. Somebody who you would do anything for, and they'd do the same for you. Somebody that you don't feel self-conscious around. Somebody that wouldn't just stand and watch you fool about, but cadastrar-se in with you. Somebody that you can call up casually at any time and ask if they're free to hang out. Somebody that you can easily say 'I amor you' to, to their face. Somebody that spontaneously hugs you in public without giving it a segundo count. Somebody who would stay up all night texting you because you needed their support at the time.
It annoys me when some people claim 'you've my best friend' after knowing eachother one day. Just because you automatically get on well with someone doesn't mean they're a best friend. As I said, a best friend should be somebody that is all the above. That's how I feel anyway. It's not a fact, no, it's an opinion. But I feel that 'best friend' is a strong meaning. It's not just anyone.
You have to get to know them, you have to have a special bond. You have to spend time together and accept eachother despite the differences you will find out. It takes time to form a best friend, but if you find that this person means so much to you, and you get to know eachother, you'll find that the level of your friendship will increase. Through my eyes, when you can put a tick seguinte to all that I stated above, then it's seguro to say they're your best friend.
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