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shocking

i just found out that my friend is pregnant and she's only 14

she wanted to get abortion but the baby's father didnt let her, because he's i think 16 or 17 and he doesnt want to be a baby killer

karpach_13 posted over a year ago

seriously what was she thinking?! that dumbmove just ruined her whole future like her career ad prom and collage . . .

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

not to scare friend but thats ok if u skip school but if you want to thats not gonna work that much :S

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

karpach_13 posted over a year ago

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Penguinangel said:

Oh geez... 14?! That's what's wrong with this current society we all live in. Kids are being subject to older matters at too young an age. I mean, kids are swearing in Elementary school, and know about, erm, what happened to your friend, por the time they're 12! For goodness sakes, I'm 15 and I've never even thought a dirty thing in my life! Why is everyone else in this world trying to grow up so fast?! If kids would acknowledge that their childhood won't last forever, and hold onto while they still can, and if the perverted thoughts of teens and adults all over the world could stay in their heads, AT LEAST while they're around small children, then MAYBE this kind of stuff wouldn't happen! *sigh* Well, I wish your friend luck in the near future.

posted over a year ago

cuss words are no different from other words.take it back.

kairi13050 posted over a year ago

Um... Sorry? But, that's just my opinion up there

Penguinangel posted over a year ago

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I know my cousin is 9 and he tries to ack all like hes 21 he cusses and wants to drink and just leaves his apartment without even telling hi mom and they live in the ghetto part of my town

MJfan10009 posted over a year ago

Spi_Kat_Penguin said:

O_O wow....thats wrong...

-Spi

posted over a year ago

amethyst44 said:

yowch how is she coping with all of it?

posted over a year ago

PreBanned said:

Errrr..... Wow o.o

Uhm... Is she OK with that? o.O;

posted over a year ago

idk she was shocked when she found out but the guy that got her preganant is working and stuff so i think he's going to take of her and the baby, i cant believe it though because he's so nice and intelligent its incrível

karpach_13 posted over a year ago

wow o.o

PreBanned posted over a year ago

16falloutboy said:

WTF???, are you serious?!?!?!?!?, that's just wrong, man poor girl and she is kinda stupid

posted over a year ago

MarylovesSelena said:

Oh,wow...

posted over a year ago

iamagagamonster said:

thats gross :P she did some1 at 14 D:

posted over a year ago

di'nt mean for to sound that way sorry never noticed till now

iamagagamonster posted over a year ago

DxC_lover98 said:

ew. I'm sorry, i think that's disturbing that someone would do that at that age.

posted over a year ago

music_chick14 said:

wow. is she ok? it's nice that the father is staying with her and that he's there to support her and the baby. that's why you shouldn't do that at that age, though.

posted over a year ago

yeah i was watching this show "16 and pregnant" and the miss everything prom, collage, career . . . .i could go on forever but i dont want her to feel mais shocked :I

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

Waterwhip said:

thats mortifying! she should watch the show "16 and pregnant" tho i dont see what it can do for er now it might straighten her up.

posted over a year ago

xSannanas said:

Omg, that's bad.. Ö

posted over a year ago

Elizabeth-14 said:

geez thanks alana for telling everyone

posted over a year ago

. . . . i wish you luck . . . . :)

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

fun123fun said:

first WOW and segundo i herd there was a pregnate 7 ano old

posted over a year ago

. . . . . . . . . . . . creepy . . . . . . . . . . .

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

RnBStar13 said:

Omg! that's really bad, she's like a baby having a baby, it's insane! I want to have a baby now though but i'm too young too :'( my mum would literally kill me.

posted over a year ago

mine almost killed me too but im moving in with my boyfriend we're kind of going to try to live like a family

Elizabeth-14 posted over a year ago

yeah i wait till ur in ur 20's :s

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

is 16 too young? but plus i'm 16 anyway but tbh i don't care i just want a baby! i'm desperate!

RnBStar13 posted over a year ago

id still wait for the better

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

Snugglebum said:

she is going to need you as a form of support now. you shouldnt blame her-blame the growing support of teem pregnancy in the media, and also the lack of education on the matter that is being provided- many parents oppose the teaching of sexual eduation in the school setting, fearing that it actually encourages it or because they feel it is THEIR obligation.
If she doesnt want the baby, she should not have an abortion, but she can seek adoption and can get conselhos through family planning about what needs to be done, and hopefully she can spare herself and the child hard times because of the expense of raising him or her, but Community action and Social Services can help her financially if she wants to keep the baby, and i konw someone she can go to if she needs conselhos or "what to expect" my sister is 7 months pregnant herself and can help because of her experience, her username is BabyMama1091 and she could send her a message either directly or through me. but you can be there for her and let her not feel so alone, because I am certain she is scared right now and is having regrets, nowadays its a sad truth but teenage pregnancy is not uncommon.

posted over a year ago

kairi13050 said:

man.if i was forced to keep the baby,they would need to came from quite a rich family,if ya know what i'm sayin...and also,i don't think she's too young.this world we're living in these days,it's just sick.saying someone's too young to have a kid.no,they really aren't if they're able to.and don't say "oh,they're still in school.they're gonna fail and stuff"cause that's just dumb.school's retarded,but don't get me started on that!anyway,best of luck to her.i'll pray for her to have strength in her hard times.

(no hate comments,please)

posted over a year ago

but she may not be able to go to collage and have agreat career then agin go to prom ((prom depends tho)

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

yep...that's what's wrong with this world.that we have things like careers,school,etc.but please,don't even get me started.(btw if she wanted to badly enough,she would be able to go to prom.she could leave the baby with someone or in daycare.duh.)

kairi13050 posted over a year ago

true true for some reason i never thought of that :)

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

zanhar1 said:

Not a very wise choice.

posted over a year ago

agreed buddy :)

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

adultswimperson said:

Ummm, gross, thats a bad way to get into something serious, people these days need to start thinking right and stop being such morons about what there doing.

posted over a year ago

MissKnowItAll said:

I know. A girl at my school is giving birth sometime this mês (august). She's 14, I think. It's messed up her entire future.

posted over a year ago

yeah no prom no collaedge no career because no collage (no career that needs a diploma thing at least)

Waterwhip posted over a year ago

^ I know. Her parents threw her out. It's so sad.

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MissKnowItAll posted over a year ago

EdwardsOnlyGirl said:

Omg that is so crazy!!! How is she dealing with all of this??? I mean Having a baby is a big huge responseability.She is going to have so much going on now in her life with a baby to take care of. I help my sister take care of her to kids and that is still tough, so I learned through that expercince to wait until I'm older.

posted over a year ago

she takes xlasses and i always have to go with her so i learn too even though i dont need to right now, her boyfriend is always at school or at work she he doesnt have almost anytime to be at home, he is so busy trying to buy an apartment for both of them, i think they already bought one ill post the pictures of it

karpach_13 posted over a year ago