aleatório Article: 40 Things Boys Should NEVER do in a Relationship

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40 Things Boys Should NEVER do in a Relationship

posted by jayjay4life

1. Don't EVER tell us to CALM DOWN when we're angry. We hate that, and it often makes the situation worse.
2. Don't act like you know what you're talking about when you don't. It just pisses us off.
3. Don't treat us badly and with disrespect.
4. Don't give us commands like we're some kind of dog. We're your equal and should be treated as such.
5. Sure, you're the guy, so you can act like you're the stronger one... Whatever... But, don't EVER act like you're the head of the house. Relationships are to be an equal situation.
6. Don't yell at us when we do something wrong.
7. When you screw up, don't blame your fault on us.
8. Don't be rude to our side of the family. Ever.
9. Don't give yourself special privilges.
10. Don't hide anything from us.
11. Don't tell us lies.
12. Don't make stupid decisions.
13. When we act mean or hissy, don't get us even mais angry por atuação like a jerk. We're girls. You don't understand what we go through.
14. Don't be immature.
15. DON'T CHEAT ON US!!!
16. Don't ever say, "Go make me a sandwich!" Or something along those lines... We're not your damn maids!!!
17. Don't tell us to clean up after your messes.
18. Don't be lazy.
19. Don't abuse us!!! We're not animals!!! We're your equal!!! I can't express that enough.
20. Don't ignore us.
21. Don't run away if we ever get into an argument. It's always better to sort things out.
22. Don't hold grudges if we try apologizing for something we did wrong.
23. Don't make us worry por staying out all night and not coming início until later.
24. Don't forget to compliment us when we put on a cute outfit and spice up our look. It pisses us off when we spend all that time getting ready to not get a compliment from you.
25. When you know we're right, don't act like you know you're right. When you're wrong, it's better to admit it.
26. Don't treat us badly in front of friends just to show your manly-hood. Again, we're your EQUAL.
27. Don't cop a joke on us and embarrass us. It's NOT funny! Especially when we're surrounded por strangers or friends.
28. If we ask a pergunta like, "Do I look fat in this dress?" Don't tell us a lie to save our feelings. Tell us the truth. But do it in a nice way. Not a mean way. This will show us that you're honest.
29. Don't forget to tell us you amor us!
30. Don't act like we're nothing.
31. Don't act like we're just somebody in your life to cook for you and provide you with sexual pleasure.
32. Don't make us do something we don't want to do.
33. Don't threaten us.
34. Don't put pressure on us.
35. Don't make us do everything to maintain a good relationship.
36. Don't cast rude comments on us when we're crying.
37. Don't say that another girl is hot or beautiful in front of us. You wanna get slapped?!
38. Don't laugh at us when we do something wrong, screw something up, or embarrass ourselves.
39. Don't push us in pools!!! ESPECIALLY when we have make up on!!
40. Don't treat us unfairly.

I hope this gets through to you boys that need to hear this advice! =]

hyunakada33, deathding and 15 others like this

wolfgirl985 So true

RealBenTennyson Isn't it all true the other way?

taylorl4101 my x bf on here did every thing on there

Dizzo O_O Message received. xD

BlindBandit92 this article goes both ways. Not just guys but girls too. Girls shouldnt do some of that stuff either. And you're right relationships would be equal.

jayjay4life Yes, you're right. Most of those things could go both ways. However, it's mostly boys that violate those conditions. You're boys. You just don't understand, and that's perfectly fine. Still, we have to both try and comply to these rules. Anyway, by you saying a defensive remark, I can infer that you gained no knowledge from this article. Except for you, Dizzo :]

BlindBandit92 I already knew this knowledge. I know girls very well. Because I have a sis and mother. and many female friends. more females than males. I wasnt trying to say a defensive remark. I was simply making a point.

BlindBandit92 I was agreeing with you. Just adding something else too. And actually I know many girls that are jerks too. and question shouldnt those rules differ for everyone?

jayjay4life Alrighty then. And, answer to your question, no, they don't differ for everyone. Anyway, like I said before.. Yes, girls and boys can both be bitches. HOWEVER, that is not the topic of this article so why don't you just think before you speak? :] This wasn't directed towards girls. It was directed to boys, and if you don't like it.. Haha too bad =]

PrincessBla you tell him jayy xDDD he's probably just upset cuz he's more attached to his feminine side so he had to say somethin

xxAjulietxx My best friend's boyfriend really needs this list.

MizzMakayla Boys should know this anyways.. but yet some of them do most of these things.

EmzLovesCheryl @xxAjulietxx - same. I don't understand why she's still with him. :L

jamahl17 well, gd stuff to k for stupid guys but i already knew most of that....so it would really be ok if i told her about looking fat in dress? I thought i should comfort her :s

admyank What a shitty article. "You're the guy..." so that means this was written by a passive aggressive woman. Everything is equal - it sure the hell isn't. I don't see my wife out there fixing the car. And she sure the hell don't do housework. Additionally, 90% of the women do this shit and wonder how come after 5 years of marriage - we prefer to be alone and self-sufficient. And a Maid don't make a sammich - it's the fucking butler.