I Have an error in my TVD knowledge please help!!!! the problem is I keep switching from Delena 2 Stelena and I need 1 Delena fã and 1 Stelena fã 2 give me 10 reasons why I should pick Delena/Stelena the person who helps me decide will get 1

10. he came into her life at a time she needed.
9. damon's ice blue eyes trumps anything about stefan..especially his pokemon hair.
8.did stefan know it was elena he was choking the life out of NOT katherine in the episode houseguest...NO!!
7. stefan "respects" her 2 death!! how about he loves her enough 2 want her 2 live!! even paul said that was ridiculous. lol
6. no stelena scene in the reckoning compares 2 the delena scene in coração of darkness not 2 mention the episode ended with damon carrying elena off 2 safety ( like he always does) and damon comforting her & promising 2 NEVER leave her again!!
5. jeremy wanted stefan 2 leave elena alone 2 por the end of s3 & he told him so b4 the season ended in the episode where elena passes out & ended up in the hospital.
4. that was the old damon.this damon has saved both their lives not 2 mention tyler & matt. how many times has bonnie tried to kill damon por setting him on fire? that was then & this is now!!
3."you're staring. i'm gazing.it's creepy. it's romantic."why would it be creepy if ur in cama 2gether with the person u love? if it is then maybe there's a problem & u shouldn't be in cama with them. when damon & elena r in cama 2gether just talking & staring in2 each others eyes i'm sure neither 1 of them thinks it's creepy.
3. stefan found himself again cuz of his amor 4 his brother NOT elena. elena's words: "if stefan comes back it will be becuz he loves u..not becuz he loves me." even katherine got through 2 him 4 damon's sake!! elena couldn't get through 2 him not even 4 his own sake!!
1."i met a girl. we talked.it was epic."NOT!!! what's truely worthy of being called epic is the time & attention that the writers have taken with d/e's journey. something the writers have never actually taken the time 2 do with stelena.
to me the choice is simple & quite clear that elena always wanted damon 2 be the better man and he is. it's ovious that he's the best thing 4 her not the worst. the worst thing 4 her was letting her die when she simply didn't need 2!!

Ten Reasons Why Stefan is Elena's Epic Love:

10. Stefan saved Elena from her grief and loneliness.
9. Stefan has amazing hair and killer abs
8. Stefan always can tell if it's Katherine or Elena
7.Stefan respects Elena's choices
6. All of the scenes from "The Reckoning"
5. Her friends and family like Stefan, if she got with Damon officially it would be awkward for everyone
4. Stefan loves her friends (Caroline and Bonnie) Damon has abused/tried to kill both of them
3. "You're staring. I'm gazing. It's creepy. It's romantic!"
3. Stefan found himself again, for her (season 3)
2. Stefan has risked his life, not just to save her, but her family (Jenna and Jeremy)
1. "I met a girl. We talked. It was epic."

STELENA <3

Shouldn't YOU be the one who decides...?
I think shipping is a matter of your personal preferences, feelings, this "something", not something you chose becasue of logical arguments. You just see this spark between a couple, sometimes you are not even able to explain the reason you see magic in them...
Besides, what's the problem with shipping both couples? I knew few people who do. They are the luckiest, because whoever Elena picks, they're happy ^^
Probably one dia you'll decide which pairing you prefer, but until then you can just enjoy how happy you are, that you don't care about ship wars :D