I couldn't think of anywhere else to post this, so I'm saying it here and in hope of pointing something out to this fandom, who are also part of many other fandoms.

I was watching Ellen videos, and it's an old video. But..it just was horrible. I couldn't take it, it broke my coração in two. A..a little boy...was murdered...for being gay. He was murdered...by the person, he asked to be his valentine. A little boy, who asked for such a simple thing, was killed. And it's just...horrible.

And, the reason I am posting it here is because, this fandom...is full of such children. Who, don't really understand what they are laughing at or what they are saying or doing. They just think about themselves, to childish to get it.
We've all seen the France rape comments, Spain pedo, Russia murder, etc.
And, I just wanted to get this out there of how horrible it is. Things like that, are serious.
Just a view days ago, I was looking at youtube and I say mais comments like that. One was very nice and apologized, said she realized what she said was wrong. The other, said I was over reacting and should learn to take a joke. Learn to take a joke? I'm sorry, but when was rape funny? It's just, I don't think they understand how serious it is and how ridiculous it is to even think it's a joke.
Know, after hearing about this poor boy. You start to realize, how many gay jokes there are and how...horrible we even treat gay couples. These yaoi pairings, are you really loving the beauty and amor of it? Or are you just being selfish?
A lot of this fandom does this, not just Hetalia, but the yaoi fandom all together. Treating it like it's there for fun and games. For the fanart and the doujinshis. I don't think we really realize, how serious it is. Forget that they are countries for a second, because that's a serious matter too. But, you, are treating homosexual couples, as something that's just there to be hot. I've seen fans, who completely bash and ignore heterosexual couples, because yaoi is 'hotter'. Do you realize, how offensive that sounds? You are even bashing down two women relationships as well, because oh, two woman are gross. But two men are so hot. You are treating homosexual couples, as something that is just hot.
No couple is different, amor is love. Be it two men, two woman, or a man and woman. A pairing is a pairing. And atuação like one is better, just because it's 'hot'. Is horrible, you aren't thinking about the relationship or anything. Just your eyes and what you are looking at.
I'm noticing it mais now and remember it mais now, after hearing about this poor boy. All these horrible jokes and how serious they are. I'm sure you've heard the 'oh that's so gay' comments or the 'Oh (England, France, etc.), you're so gay. XD' ones. And not only did they say that, but they laughed about it. Like being gay is SO funny. But it's not, what if I laughed at you for being straight? It's just horrible, how these fans, are just so childish and selfish to understand how serious this is.
Again I'm sorry I am breaking down like this. But I just needed to type this, I needed to get that out there. I needed to cry as I typed, to let it all out.
So please, please. Don't make jokes like that, don't act like things like that should be laughed at. Rape, murder, pedophila, being gay. It's not funny, it's not. It's a serious matter, and because the character are fictional, people think it's alright to do that and make jokes.
Think it's perfectly fine to treat couples as a fun sex game or make such horrinle 'jokes' about characters. But it's really not, it's horrible and offensive. Doing that, you are laughing at people in real life, who have been raped or killed. You are treating homosexual couples, as something that is just there for fun and games, something good to look at.
So again, people, never do that. Please, remember this.

And, lastly, if someone of the same sex asks to be your valentine, just say yes. They aren't asking you to marry them or even looking for a kiss, it is just a simple thing, that will make them really happy.