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delamico said:
Well yes, shit happens. Sometimes in the form of biological output, sometimes as disagreement among friends. Maybe I'm exaggerating, but you should be careful when reacting to that, because it may not be figured out as easily as it seems. Just in case, I'll tell you the story of something very similar that happened to me.
So we were the best friends for a good while, like the three musketeers - as later said so. My friends, as many others at that time, totally fell for these Japanese cartoons, animes. First they watched one series, then six and it was not such a long time that it was already sixty. I, however, wasn't impressed with these desenhos animados at all, I thought they were boring and stupid. They were kinda forcing me, however to read/watch these Japanese stuffs. And just as they did, I also messed up reacting to this too and started hating everything related to Japão in principal. The two of them had mais and mais programs together, the three of us less and less. And there was also some jealousy involved from my and one of the girls part, because we both had the third one as our best friend who was for a while torn between us. To get to the bottom line, we kind of fell apart, and though we are still sorta mates, I'm nothing of such close friends with any of them as I used to be, which is a pity.
So you really have to be careful with things like this: teens can be hasty and silly when reacting to disagreements with our peers - and the progress started is not easy to stop. Ignorance, pushing each other or separating even further are no answers. I can only advise you to talk to them about this. That should work. :) Good luck, and don't make our mistakes!
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