So Ive seen all over how the Delena kiss was a pity kiss and it kinda makes me laugh. There is one other kiss I can compare it too and if you stick with me this may be long Im going to explain how the Delena kiss was not a pity kiss por showing this other kiss from a couple I ship and how their first kiss was not a pity kiss and mears Delena in some ways.
Ron/Hermione Harry Potter: Now if you read the books you'll remember it took these two a long bunda time to finally see they liked each other. I compare Delena mais to romione then to Spike and Buffy I just do. They had the fights, the angest, the "I like you but I deny it" aspects like Delena. Their first kiss was like DE's not out of pity, but at a time where one or the other could have died and there was that chance if that happened, neither would know how the other felt, Ron loved this girl he just didnt know how to tell her, same with Hermione. Its why she got so upset when he left in Deathy Hallows, he could have gotten killed and she at that time didnt let him know how she felt about him.
Now to compare the Delena and romione kisses. They were a type of kiss given not out of pity, but the best way you could show someone without words how you truly feel about them, because both situations had the possible and very real outcome someone could die so in reality they were "This may be truly the last time I can show you how I feel about you so if you die at least you did knowing I loved you" kisses. In Delenas case it was Elena showing him she has feelings for him, not amor yet, but very strong feelings.
Neither Damon or Ron asked for a kiss. Damon was making his last amends saying he was sorry to have caused Elena pain, seeing he was wrong to blame Stefan basically saying hes sorry, Ron was showing how selfless he was caring about getting house elves out of the school so they wouldnt end up like Dobby. Due to these two guys were thinking about others before themselves, the feelings these two girls have for them came out in a kiss.
Sorry if this makes no sense it does to me lol.
Ron/Hermione Harry Potter: Now if you read the books you'll remember it took these two a long bunda time to finally see they liked each other. I compare Delena mais to romione then to Spike and Buffy I just do. They had the fights, the angest, the "I like you but I deny it" aspects like Delena. Their first kiss was like DE's not out of pity, but at a time where one or the other could have died and there was that chance if that happened, neither would know how the other felt, Ron loved this girl he just didnt know how to tell her, same with Hermione. Its why she got so upset when he left in Deathy Hallows, he could have gotten killed and she at that time didnt let him know how she felt about him.
Now to compare the Delena and romione kisses. They were a type of kiss given not out of pity, but the best way you could show someone without words how you truly feel about them, because both situations had the possible and very real outcome someone could die so in reality they were "This may be truly the last time I can show you how I feel about you so if you die at least you did knowing I loved you" kisses. In Delenas case it was Elena showing him she has feelings for him, not amor yet, but very strong feelings.
Neither Damon or Ron asked for a kiss. Damon was making his last amends saying he was sorry to have caused Elena pain, seeing he was wrong to blame Stefan basically saying hes sorry, Ron was showing how selfless he was caring about getting house elves out of the school so they wouldnt end up like Dobby. Due to these two guys were thinking about others before themselves, the feelings these two girls have for them came out in a kiss.
Sorry if this makes no sense it does to me lol.
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