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Are there any odd or interesting ways you show affection / receive affection?

To be honest, a lot of my ways of showing affection are weird, especially since I got a bit of them from birds XD

But of the less extremely odd ones but still kind of so, I take comida as a way of showing affection to people XD

Offering me some of their comida for some reason seems to be one of the stronger forms of affection I notice. Like.... At this point, I might even find it mais so than complements of verbal XD

And likewise, if I like someone, I usually tend to offer them food. The mais I like you, the mais I seem to go out of my way to get you comida XD

Like friends? Oh sure, you can have some of my snack.

REALLY CLOSE FRIENDS? Okay lemme go pay for our lunch every other day.

Not really THAT often but still XD

I dont even like comida that much XD
 Are there any odd or interesting ways you show affection / receive affection?
 Riku114 posted over a year ago
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Mauserfan1910 said:
I really wouldn't describe me as affectionate in any way. That said, I tend to be rough with the people I like.
My husband and I argue for fun. We don't really fight, but we kinda set up debates with each other over philosophical shit
I have a friend from Santa Fe who I used to bare knuckle fight with before I got pregnant.
I hardcore insult the prez, I'm always like oi faggit, ur a retard
So if I'm rough with you without being straight up mean, it's probably because I like you
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I'm the same way. I amor fake-arguing over stupid stuff that doesn't mean anything, and I'm purposely aggressive towards people I'm close to. I'm usually too shy to do these kinds of things with most people, so if I end up insulting/punching someone it means I like them.
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
CokeTheUmbreon said:
Same with the comida thing.
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kingcesar67 said:
Harassing them
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wantadog said:
I give massages.

The mais I like/trust a person, the mais likely I'll be to agree to give/be eager to give them a nice and thorough massage using the massage therapy stuff I've been learning.

It can go from begrudgingly accepting to do it to sometimes suggesting they need one to flat out offering to massage practically anything that comes up in conversation.
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 I give massages. The mais I like/trust a person, the mais likely I'll be to agree to give/be eager to give them a nice and thorough massage using the massage therapy stuff I've been learning. It can go from begrudgingly accepting to do it to sometimes suggesting they need one to flat out offering to massage practically anything that comes up in conversation.
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zanhar1 said:
I don't show affection. I don't like receiving it either. Keep your emotions 10,000 feet away from me. Its awkward and uncomfortable.
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Freeme11 posted over a year ago
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For me I do some of it unconsciously. Like if a friend at work is feeling like shit I'll offer to help with/complete some of her tasks automatically.
ArcticWolf posted over a year ago
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Gotcya lol. I guess mine is just making people laugh or something like that? I don't do any of the 'conventional' affection stuff.
zanhar1 posted over a year ago
Freeme11 said:
i agree with zanhar1
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Scourgestar said:
I don't show much affection....however, i do tend to head nudge like a cat sometimes :p
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ArcticWolf said:
When I'm super comfortable around someone, I playfully soco them to show affection. I've received mixed responses.

I also offer to do things I really don't want to do if the person I'm with is really tired.

Receiving affection? I don't like being touched (ironic because of the punching thing. I don't understand it either). I really don't ask for aleatório acts of kindness so when people offer me something I try to turn them down several times first.

...unless they're offering me food. Free comida is awesome and I don't turn that down.
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ShadowFan100 said:
I'm generally not into a lot of physical contact, as the mere thought of it makes my skin crawl 95% of the time. Though, there is the rare 5% where I actually crave hugs. But no fucking hand-shakes, I hate that shit with a passion.

I show affection through words (spoken or text). Or por doing things for those I really love. But don't expect me to kiss you, either. That's gross. 😣
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BlindBandit92 said:
If I really like you. I'll solve your problems if you ask me to do it or not. Especially if I know it's obviously affecting you.

I'll probably tease someone as well. The mais I tease = how close I consider myself to you. I also try to showcase my knowledge/planning/etc if anyone needs it.

You need to plan a trip? I will plan it to the letter and make sure it's as chill as possible. Nothing is going wrong with that trip if I can help it.

Weirdly enough I appreciate the times where I can be quiet with a friend but it's not awkward silence. Those kinds of situations are pretty chill. I really amor that.

Just some of the ways.
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I relate to these too XD
Riku114 posted over a year ago
Zeppie said:
I'm not very affectionate with anyone aside from my partner tbh.

For family I'll try lighten the mood with jokes or dumb stories or I'll just ask them how their dia was.

friends I'll nudge them if we're playing around or hug them if I haven't seen them in a while. I'll pay for comida for them on special occasions or if we made a bet. Just chat about how they're doing. With my closest friend we lean on each other on the sofá or sometimes walk with our arms linked if it's late.

My partner and I are very affectionate. Just lots of kisses and cuddles and randomly blowing air up each others noses or in their ear, licking face, butt smacks, shouting each other lunch or coming to the gym with a smoothie, batido for him or he'll uber to my house and bring sushi. Just those things.

Nothing too weird I guess lol. I'm not great at receiving affection from people aside from my partner, closest friend and family.
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Pretty similar with me tho tbh.
Riku114 posted over a year ago
TheLefteris24 said:
Well, I don't know if I should call them Odd or particularly Interesting even though I cannot help but feel like an Alien when seeing most opinions and the respostas here XD People have their own ways of showing affection in various ways anyway. Mine is mainly doing so through certain Actions (Making a special gift for others, standing por them through hardships, partaking in activities together, trying my best to crack a smile out of them in overall, doing a high five or anything of the sort, etc.)
I do not mind expressing my appreciation through Words. Well, it is not that I am THAT good at them actually... But I try. Pretty much, I do not mind telling people how I feel about them. The closest, the easiest really. I'll say it as many times as needed actually whether they believe me or not. A Reminder is never bad. We might need it at times. That is just the way Humans work, I believe.

As for the way I have received affection in my Life, the same ways apply, I suppose. I guess, what is really odd would be the fact that while I am all about giving, I have a hard time actually feeling it myself. I mean, I know it is there but it is like I cannot understand why as weird as it seems. Ironic in a way. Displaying affection but not being used to receiving it back myself. I appreciate it though, nonetheless. So, just normal stuff in the end XD !!!!
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 Well, I don't know if I should call them Odd or particularly Interesting even though I cannot help but feel like an Alien when seeing most opinions and the respostas here XD People have their own ways of showing affection in various ways anyway. Mine is mainly doing so through certain Actions (Making a special gift for others, standing por them through hardships, partaking in activities together, trying my best to crack a smile out of them in overall, doing a high five or anything of the sort, etc.) I do not mind expressing my appreciation through Words. Well, it is not that I am THAT good at them actually... But I try. Pretty much, I do not mind telling people how I feel about them. The closest, the easiest really. I'll say it as many times as needed actually whether they believe me or not. A Reminder is never bad. We might need it at times. That is just the way Humans work, I believe. As for the way I have received affection in my Life, the same ways apply, I suppose. I guess, what is really odd would be the fact that while I am all about giving, I have a hard time actually feeling it myself. I mean, I know it is there but it is like I cannot understand why as weird as it seems. Ironic in a way. Displaying affection but not being used to receiving it back myself. I appreciate it though, nonetheless. So, just normal stuff in the end XD !!!!
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Oh I have similar actions too XD
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THaSlimJim said:
if i talk to u nicely i probly like u but u will kno when i do not like u.
if i share my pizza w/ u tho then ur hte bees knees
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bees have knees?
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