So I've only been a member of fanpop for like a month, and lately I guess I've made it my mission to better the clubes I'm apart of; especially the TVD clubes cause they're my favorite! Anyways, something I've noticed is that there always seems to be fighting between one ship or another, wether it's Delena, Stelena, Bamon, Klaroline, or Forwood. And honestly, I feel it needs to stop.

Don't get me wrong, I don't see anything wrong with a little competitive rivalry, but some people just go on, and on about how they hate this couple or how their couple is just the over all best... Really? What are we, five? Anyways, it's petty and I've seen some really hurtful things that have been said to one another.

What kind of image are we showing for our club if everyone just see's us fighting over our favorito ship's? And it's not just this club either; it's the main TVD club and TVD Couples club as well. I've already brought attention to this issue to both clubs, but I'm bringing it to attention here because this is an important club as well, so we should try and set a good example; because our couples that we amor so dearly are driving wedges between our club mates and other clubs.

I'm not asking for you to not say anything if someone insults your ship; all I'm asking is that you be the bigger person. I mean, this is everyone's club, not just Delena's or Bamon's or Forwood's club; so let's try to act like adults and respect each other's opinions even if we disagree. No harsh words, no insults, no long rants about how your couple is way better than some other couple. Just civilized fãs all apart of a diverse community. :)

On another note, who's ready for Season 4 to start?!? :D