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What should I do?

I'm a Feminist, but I'm also a Christian. The problem here is that as a Feminist, I would want to meet a nice guy who respects me as a human being, but I'm afraid that he'll want premarital sex, which goes against my abstinence choice; as a Christian, I would like to meet a guy who respects and probably shares my abstinence choice, but I'm afraid that he'll be the "women must be submissive" type fools that'll force me into marriage before I'm even ready and make me a submissive being (which would be pretty simple for him because I'm softspoken). Any advice?
 ivoryphills posted over a year ago
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Dope_Sean said:
Just let the right person come ur way, i mean if they the one, they wud neva force u into anything and just as u wanna be loved as a human, also amor back, be patient and stand up 4 wat u believe in and people actually respect that...
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posted over a year ago 
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Well said... If the boy you are with doesn't respect you, don't worry and wait for the seguinte one...
DamederBlumen posted over a year ago
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True dat!!
Dope_Sean posted over a year ago
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:-) Thanks!
ivoryphills posted over a year ago
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u welcome
Dope_Sean posted over a year ago
dreamfields said:
Wait for the right guy. Watch out for any guy (Christians included) that's a control freak. Yes there is the whole bit about submitting, that is often misunderstood. Remember, we are to enviar one to another. It goes both ways. As a Christian, don't be afraid to pray that God will prepare the right man for you.
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posted over a year ago 
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lol Thank you!
ivoryphills posted over a year ago
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:)
dreamfields posted over a year ago
RobinFan360 said:
Not all guys are out to get sex. In fact, only 45% of young people are actually having sex. You being submissive to him does not give him the right to cause you to sin. Plus, if he's a nice christian guy, he won't try to make you do it.
Point is is that you don't have to listen to him if he's asking for you to sin.
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well said :)
dreamfields posted over a year ago
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and even if someones not christian doesnt mean they dont share similiar views
Deans_Girl posted over a year ago
Deans_Girl said:
Once you know, you may have found the right guy and you feel like you can trust him. tell him exactly what you told us. if he loves you he will respect that
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SubRacquel said:
Just stand up for yourself

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