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I'm kinda afraid of kissing... :(

oi guys,
I'm nearly 18 and I've got a boyfriend of the same age since 6th November this ano but I don't dare beijar him :( He has already kissed me 2 times and it wasn't bad but I think I'm too shy to kiss him. Perhaps I have to say that we're both mais shy and he's my first real bf and I think he's also not that experienced but I'm always afraid of doing something wrong or to blame me. Especially because I feel like it's really embarrassing that a nearly 18-years old girl is afraid of beijar her boyfriend. What do you think of it and do you have some tips for me? :) (sorry for the bad English but I'm German so please have sympathy for it :) )
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How about hugging and holding hands? Are you okay with doing that?
purpledemigod posted over a year ago
 Love-Taylor13 posted over a year ago
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brokenheart24 said:
well if you really do amor him deep down u should ask him if you can kiss him,every kiss snt perfect
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Animetama said:
Maybe you aren't ready for a real boyfriend. It could explain your phobia of kisses. Either that or...

...Maybe you only think of him as a friend deep down, but are happy to go out with him only because you actually have a boyfriend. Think about this carefully, and don't forget that this feeling is perfectly normal.

Otherwise, I'd (I know this sounds tacky) practice in the mirror and think of it as an expierence of your life time. ;)

If the last option doesn't work, and you slightly feel as if it's gross, then option two may be the case.
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posted over a year ago 
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Yes I really amor him and I'm always happy when I see him and when we're together my hands sweat and everything like this :) and it's not the problem of beijar HIM but beijar in general :) okay it sounds like there are other boys in my life but of course it's not like that :) I think I just have overcome my inclinations because I WANT to kiss him...
Love-Taylor13 posted over a year ago
sehdt said:
You certainly should not feel embarrassed. Until earlier this ano it had been years since I had kissed a man in that sort of way but then I found myself in that situation and I sort of thought I had forgotten how so for the first few times he took the lead so letting him kiss you is fine. However seguinte time you kiss try leaning gently into it so you feel slightly mais pressure between your lips and his. You also need to feel relaxed when you kiss otherwise it won't work. Don't worry though the first few times you kiss anyone you have not kissed before it feels odd but once you get into it you will be fine I promise you. trust me I am 36 and have been there and done it mais than once.
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okay thank you so much..that was really helpful :)
Love-Taylor13 posted over a year ago
dexisawesome said:
I'm afraid too. :T
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There is nothing to be scared. Try beijar the back of your hand to practice but remember to close your eyes and pretend its him. Also if you have not already may be you need to tell him so he knows. Not everyone likes or is any good at beijar but there is no need to be scared its a very natural thing to do.
sehdt posted over a year ago
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A nice kiss makes me very happy and usually sets me up for a good rest of the dia
sehdt posted over a year ago
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-.- Boy...I'm a boy.... Why does everyone think I'm a girl? Derp.
dexisawesome posted over a year ago
sshannahmontana said:
So u should forget the phobia of beijar him and suprise him with stroke in the cheek or air kisses.So u should get the real kiss por making yourself a way.
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