I am honestly sick and tired of hearing people say "Selena treated Stefan badly!". Like the worst thing Elena did was be with Damon after the breakup (which wasn't wrong). And I'm sorry but how can Stefan stans say that Stefan treated her the best? Stefan fed her vampire blood and threatened to run her off Wickery bridge and kill her (the same bridge her parents died on)! He drank from her, called her a human blood bag, his obsession with wanting to know Elena in the pilot is what unleashed years of misery on her!

My segundo point is, how do people only blame Elena for sleeping with Damon? They should blame Damon too! After all, Damon did sleep with his brother's ex-girlfriend after the breakup and Damon gets no hate!