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I have this amazing boyfriend is such a sweetheart and his coração is pure gold. My parents amor him and think that we are a good match. I agree, however I have never been attracted to him. I find him a bit repulsive and I could never imagine being "physical" with him. He weighs mais than 300 pounds and possibly he is 350. He is 16 years older than me too. What bothers me is that he is fine with his weight and happy with it and doesn't want to lose any weight. Now I know that I am not at a great weight either but I weigh a lot less than he does and I am losing weight on topo, início of it. He is not ugly, it is the weight that's the problem. However this is my first boyfriend and I have been told to not leave him and stay with him. How can I stay with him if I am not attracted to him physically? I am attracted to his personality though.

I would really appreciate it, if anyone can give me conselhos whether I should stay with him or leave him.

I have been seeing him I think about 5 months, and I have always felt this. I just went out with him because he is a really nice guy.
 United86 posted over a year ago
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Book-Freak said:
Hiya. There is no problem with not being attracted to him because of his weight.Why dont you tell him that you are worried about his health?I dunno....you could tell him the truth.... I kind ain't the best person for this: I have had one boyfiend in my life, and I was eleven. It lasted for half an hour. So yeah...
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posted over a year ago 
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That's okay. I have decided to break-up with him. With additional reasons. Thanks for answering!
United86 posted over a year ago
XvxBERSERKxvX said:
Alright this is what you do.

Get a some tough guys to beat him up and take your bolsa while you guys are heading início from a stroll, tell him you nolonger feel seguro with him anymore unless he joins a fitness club and takes up Boxing or Ju-jitsu. If he MANS UP, maybe he'll dedicate his life to training and lose weight, or He'll leave you from shame. Either way, you win! :)

Oh, and its only fair that if YOU expect him to lose weight, YOU should lose weight as well, only fair.
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posted over a year ago 
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Just to let you know I have lost mais than 40 pounds so far, and I am still losing weight. Just to let you know me & him have already dividido, dividir up.
United86 posted over a year ago
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:(
XvxBERSERKxvX posted over a year ago
PACKERSRULE2 said:
Not to be mean, but I think you did the right thing breaking up with him, it sounded like he was mais of a super close friend (like amix between a best friend and family member) and that is not love. i think because of what others (such as ur parents) say and maybe even what u say sort of conivnced u that u loved him or had "those feelings " for him ur really smart and courageous for doing what u did! Congratz (I did not mean for this to sound mean i feel for the guy but u need to watch out for u wich is what u did!)
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posted over a year ago 
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No you are right it was the right thing to do breaking up with him. I am now dating another guy, who I amor with all my heart. We have been going out for 6 months & I am attracted to him mentally & physically. He is 17 days older than me, much better than 16 years. I could imagine a future with him.
United86 posted over a year ago
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thats great thats the way it should be im happy for u :) enjoy!
PACKERSRULE2 posted over a year ago
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