During a Clash of Kings i went from loving her to hating her. Shes now like a cruz between Viserys and Circe, and her chapters in ADWD are mind numbingly boring. Sansa is judged for one stupid mover that had no effect and Dany makes a lot of stupid decisions that cause suffering to her, her dragões and her people. Also she calls herself mother of Dragons. If I were social services I'd send them to be fostered. You do not ignore your children and you certainly don't lock them up and leave them to go feral.
If you're old enough to command an army you're old enough to know how to.