We were meant to say goodbye

Courtney Was Getting Ready For Her Surprise Party When All Of A Sudden She Heard Someone.
Noah:I'm Late, I'm Late For A Very Important Date.
Courtney:What Are You Late For?
Noah:The chá Party.
Courtney:I Should Come!
Cody:Going Somewhere, Alice?
Courtney:Cody, You're A Cat?
Cody:Yes, Can You Stand On Your Head?
Courtney:No! Just Tell Me Where To Go.
Cody:Go See The Mad Hatter And March Hare.
Courtney:I Don't Want To Be Among Mad People!
Cody:You Can't Help That. We're All Mad, I'm Mad, You're Mad!
Courtney:Bye!
(Cody Disappears With A Creepy Grin)
DJ:...To Us. If There Are No Objections, Let It Be Unanimous....

Okay, so Duncan and Gwen Kissed, it is a fact. Duncan and Courtney were once a couple, thats a fact as well. Why can't both sides just get over it and leave eachother alone? There will always be Duncan and Courtney fans, becasue they were once a couple. There will now always be Duncan and Gwen fãs becasue they ARE a couple now, or for now.And becasue of this the "war" is stupid. In fact war is stupid to begin with.

Has anyone ever tried to talk to someone from the other side of the war without them knowing your a fan? My plan didn't work well, because the fã I picked in the fanpop chat was...