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Boy Help :/

Okay, so there's this guy I go to youth group with. One of my friends keeps saying that he likes me. She also says that she thinks I like him too. I'm not sure if I like him or not, I don't think about it really I'm scared that if I thought about it I would find out I like him.

There is a problem though my friend (the one that keeps telling me that he likes me), well they used to go out. She says that he watches me and the only reason she knows this is because she watches him. I'm not sure if she still likes him.

The guy is really nice and I think I might actually like him. I don't wont to upset my friend and I've never been in a relationship before, (I'm kinda shy)

The guy is also my friend and I don't want to destroy our friendship if we have a bad break up or something.

(Sorry if this is hard to make sense of)
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jameswilson said:
Well, if your friend is right and you both like each other, I think it will become apparent to both you and him. You may start talking more, maybe hang out outside of your youth group.
Just take it slow - treat it like you want to become better friends with him before you start atuação like you want a relationship.

That will also help you tell if he really likes you or not - because believe me, when you're expecting that someone likes you everything they do seems like a hint to it when it probably isn't (e.g., an accidental brush on the hand seems really important; he may just be a nice guy but it seems like he's giving you special treatment)

As for your friend, I don't know what to make of her. The fact that she says she is watching him sounds kind of weird - maybe she does like him or she still feels possessive over him. How good a friend is she? Close or just a youth group friend like him?

Just take it slow and don't divulge too much to your friend unless you know for sure you can trust her or that she isn't trying to manipulate you to win him back or something.
Good luck!
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Thank you, I don't think my friend would do that were really good friends
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