Well this is more like mental help but how do you beat a character (not saying who) and then defeat them and bring yourself to save the game.

Also I wanted to know were to get hm fly as I have forgotten

Well I can say that I could try to help for the first part as I can't remember were you can get fly play against the character when you are in a rage about something well I had a problem battling a specific character before and I played Emerald when I was in the midst of my blood boiling and that did the trick or get your friend to do it for you.Hope I could help