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I'm a Christian teen and I need some help, it's about dating.

There is a guy in my youth group that I've liked for 11 months, about six months atrás he finally got on the right path with God and I liked him even more. We started talking mais then. The closer we got as friends the mais I liked him. Two months atrás I told him that I liked him and now we never talk.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? Please help me, I don't know what to do. I've prayed and prayed but can someone please give me some advise?
 hottie23 posted over a year ago
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abs07 said:
Have you asked God to give you peace about the situation? Sometimes we just have to let these things go. Have you tried talking to him? Like small talk to smooth things over? If you have & he gave/gives you the cold shoulder then I'd back off. If you really feel like there's something left to say after much prayer & seeking God, then ask Him to guide your words if you need to confront the guy. Be nice. If you're ok being his friend, let him know if that's what God puts on your heart. If he's still standoffish after that, I'd definitely leave the him alone cause clearly he'd have a lot of growing up to do...
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I've asked God for peace but every time I come close to finding peace this guy will do something that my feelings for him come back. Thanks for the help:)
hottie23 posted over a year ago
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Well just be friends with him if he doens't want to encontro, data you not saying your feeling would just go away but at least he's friends with you then who knows mayba he will start to like you back ♥
huddygirl2 posted over a year ago
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It's ok to have feelings but asking God for peace isn't a one time deal. You have to seek him daily for the help for renewed strength and grace with the situation. So that whether things work out or not, you will be fantastic with God at your side.
abs07 posted over a year ago
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thank you both, that really helped me:)
hottie23 posted over a year ago
nathoonder said:
Sometimes when i find myself troubled i ask myself, how will this situation effect me in ten years? But I konw its sucks having a broken coração but keep prayihng and get support from your friends is the only conselhos i have to give in that regard. Hope everything works out 4 u.
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thanks for the advice:)
hottie23 posted over a year ago
LadyL68 said:
He stoped talking to you after you said you like him? I'm sorry.

Maybe he likes you too, & just wasn't ready for a relationship. Or maybe he only liked you as a friend.

Either way, it's worth talking to him. Call him or confront him seguinte time you go to Church. Ask him if he's angry, & apologise if you offended him in any way. Tell him you're ready to get back on track with him.
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thanks for the conselhos but it's been four months since i've talked to him and i've pretty much gotten over him. i apologized and tried to talk to him about things but he blew me off. we go to diffenrent churches now and i rarely see him anymore so since he was being imature, and is still atuação that way, that just means he's not ready for a relationship, doesn't like me, or isn't the one for me and I'm fine with that now.
hottie23 posted over a year ago
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