Does this make me a bad person?

to me, that would not make you a bad person. honestly my dad is no part of my life either. He was in jail all my life and only got out of jail when i was 9 and then a ano later got back in jail. so if i ever got married, i would not invite him either. So it would not make u a bad person at all. and good luck getting married

Eh the concept of fairly over pushed onto us as children. Sometimes family sucks and sometimes "family" isnt REALLY family. If you dont like your father, dont get along with him, or whatever, you arent obliged to welcome him in on your special day. Don't feel bad about it.

I really have a... lets just say poor relationship with my father so I get you.

He still calls so deep inside his coração he still cares. Even if he doesn't show it. It's your wedding. Big day. Let bygones be bygones. Invite him for the sake of your happiness. You wouldn't go through the marrage without feeling guilt ,come on he is not an angel be a sweetheart life is still good,you nener know he might change to be a better person if not you sill his daughter and you did your part inviting him even if he didnt show up at least he knows you care,unless you dont give a fuck then ..yep

Whether you should invite him or not is entirely up to you. As someone who pretty much shares the same experience with my own Father, I can understand your dilemma. I wouldn't say that there is right or wrong here actually. The matter is pretty subjective. No, this certainly doesn't make you a bad person either. If you feel like you are forcing yourself to approach him, then there's no need for you to do that. After all, shouldn't it be HIS responsibility, first and foremost? From the other hand, if you see that he is really trying and both of you desire for your relationship to improve, then go for it. No need for hesitation. Better attempt now than regretting it later and be left wondering. Whatever you decide to do doesn't really affect you as a person in my opinion. No need to feel bad over it. Simply go with the choice that feels the most natural to you. Congratulations for your Wedding por the way. This is a dia that you ought to make the most of it !!!!

Try and send him one anyway. What have you got to lose? If he doesn't show up, at least you tried. If he does show up, you can at least get sometime to bond together, and improve your relationship.

It doesn't make you a bad person.

If I were in that situation I would still send an invite to him and then the ball is in his court. He still calls you, he does care. Some people are just so bad with contact, it's no excuse but it does happen.

With you inviting his brother and not him, it could hurt him deeply. I would still invite your dad, and then see his response.

Good luck for your big dia though :)