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Suicide
Suicide has always been a taboo subject in many forms, people find it hard to talk about, to approach it or to deal with it, myself included.
I have tried to commit suicide myself a number of time in the past, and now, finding myself facing friends and acquaintances dealing with the issue at the present moment find myself tired.
I shy away from dealing with it and find it difficult to give conselhos or even to know what to say when they mention it.
Personally i feel angry when they do. They are all adults, and i feel they should be able to deal with these matters themselves, and no matter what i say or what advise/personal feelings i give they don't seem to want to help themselves.
What makes matters worse for me personally is seeing them voice their feelings on social media such as facebook, and to me that is a cry for attention. And it annoys me. Why should you threaten suicide just to see messages from people saying "hope ur ok hun" etc yet when i feel like that i feel like i am a heartless cow who doesn't deserve to know them. It's also worrying how it affects my son when i have to drag him to a friends house or to mcdonalds because "mummy's friend doesn't feel very well".
Am i in the wrong here? Should i be mais willing to put myself out to help people after countless times of being shat on. Or should i be mais reserved?
Personally i feel i should be mais reserved for my own sanity and the safety of the spawn, i don't really want to introduce him to too much of this at such a young age.
But for those who are feeling depressed, suicidal or lost in any way there are people you can talk to. Friends, parents, spouses, work colleagues and doctors. Or even unknown members of the public who give their time voluntarily.
The following are hotlines and online prevention for people who need that little bit of extra help. If you feel like this, or need a bit of support or if you feel you have a few hours a dia to spare to help, please use the following:
I have tried to commit suicide myself a number of time in the past, and now, finding myself facing friends and acquaintances dealing with the issue at the present moment find myself tired.
I shy away from dealing with it and find it difficult to give conselhos or even to know what to say when they mention it.
Personally i feel angry when they do. They are all adults, and i feel they should be able to deal with these matters themselves, and no matter what i say or what advise/personal feelings i give they don't seem to want to help themselves.
What makes matters worse for me personally is seeing them voice their feelings on social media such as facebook, and to me that is a cry for attention. And it annoys me. Why should you threaten suicide just to see messages from people saying "hope ur ok hun" etc yet when i feel like that i feel like i am a heartless cow who doesn't deserve to know them. It's also worrying how it affects my son when i have to drag him to a friends house or to mcdonalds because "mummy's friend doesn't feel very well".
Am i in the wrong here? Should i be mais willing to put myself out to help people after countless times of being shat on. Or should i be mais reserved?
Personally i feel i should be mais reserved for my own sanity and the safety of the spawn, i don't really want to introduce him to too much of this at such a young age.
But for those who are feeling depressed, suicidal or lost in any way there are people you can talk to. Friends, parents, spouses, work colleagues and doctors. Or even unknown members of the public who give their time voluntarily.
The following are hotlines and online prevention for people who need that little bit of extra help. If you feel like this, or need a bit of support or if you feel you have a few hours a dia to spare to help, please use the following:
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