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Help someone! please.

ok my friend has been texting me about his parents and how they got a divorce and stuff and how it has hurt him. my parents rnt divorced (yet, eventually they will, i gotta feeling.), so i dont know how to reply, and i always end up just saying that i feel bad for him and that im sorry, but i no thats not helping him any. he told me that the divorce was the reason he hated his life, why he has trust issues, and why sometimes he feels he has no point in life. im really worried about him and i dont know what to do. ive told my parents about it, but they said its nothing. i really need help on what to do.
 Help someone! please.
 iluvedwardc13 posted over a year ago
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teamjacob96 said:
I really dont know.But I think I would tell him that even though his parents are divorced now nothing will really change.He will still continue seeing both of them.I bet his parents still amor him the same.And tell him to not ruin his life because of that,life continues.Try to make him feel better por telling him the positive stuff like he will probably get mais money and gifts now.And if he knows that his parents are happier now he should be happy too.I don't really know because my parents aren't divorced.I hope I helped at least a little.
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posted over a year ago 
megz27 said:
My paretnas are divorced and when i h appened all my friends told me things like trust in god... god planned this... it willl all b ok... so maybe try that!
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nafela said:
i'v been in this situation. i think your friend will learn to live like this but at the meen time you should go talk to him maybe it will make him feel better and you have to let him know that can't force his parents to keep loving eachother

enyway i tryed. good luck
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posted over a year ago 
YazzyLovesJimmy said:
Try telling him he shouldn't worry about it.It's just something that happens some point in life; and it's something he should try and get over.I'm not trying to say he is weird or anything,but if it is hurting him reallyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy bad,then ask to try and not think about it for a while...and see if it gets any better.

sincerely,
YazzyLovesJimmy ;)
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posted over a year ago 
NikkiLovesOTH said:
My parents just seperated after being together for 19 years so I know that it's really hard...I had a mother and father everywhere I went and now I don't....Just try to be there for him and make sure he knows that this isn't his fault it's life things like this happen and his parents weren't meant to be but he was...Try to keep him company and get him away from it and distract him from all the stuff that is going on and make sure he knows you care about him and that. You need to make him understand that his parents divorcing has nothing to do with him, that it's not reason to give up on life and that just because his parents didn't make it doesn't mean he won't be able to make a relationship work. Just make sure you spend time with him and make sure he doesn't say mais worring comments if he starts saying stuff about taking his life or not wanting to be here you might want to go to a counselor at school...Remember if you need any mais conselhos ask me and I hope I helped at least a little because I know how it feels for him right now it sucks....
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posted over a year ago 
beebes94 said:
My friends where going through the same thing and my other friends mum was an alcaholic just support him and give him a hug and tell everyithing will be okay they amor you all the same nothing has changed about you, they are still your mum and dad
and tell him you will support him whatever
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