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I need help

You know I was one of the most fun girls and must know her, super popular. But in the past 2 years I became shy and a total loser. I want to be the energetic,lively and talkative self but I just can't bring myself to that. Can you please give me some advice?
 AndreaHoran posted over a year ago
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prussiaducky said:
Eye Contact

If you are talking to someone, DO NOT EVER not make eye contact. Look them straight in the eye! It may feel awkward and embarrassing, but that is a technique and a skill that people not only admire, but make you look professional. It is also sometimes conscidered rude not to make eye contact!

Conversion
If you are alone, and a person seguinte to you or near you is a alone (and of course, a classmate), then talk about school like:
You: Hi! Did you finish that English essay? It was so hard

Person: blah blah english blah blah essay blah

Talking about something that the two can relate to drags the conversation, and just keep going. Ask question, tell facts, keep asking for their opinion.

Never appear to be Angry or distressed when you are not

People don't really want to associate with someone who appears angry out of fear of being lashed or being annoying, so try to look happy and welcoming!


Don't use your phone in the middle of a conversation

It is rude and makes you appear uninterested. Phones can wait, conversations can't.

Last but not least

Never appear shy or scarred

Being shy or scarred makes you vulnerable, be bold, daring, and face the unknown with a smile.

The world is yours! So take a deep breath, be confident, and create a conversation with people. Good luck!!!
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Also, use signs, and read the atmosphere....very important
prussiaducky posted over a year ago
summer2987 said:
actually usually i really really really really really dont like talking about this but ,

when i was little my mom died and i got really sad and depressed and so did my dad . my dad started to drink and would ignore me and my siblings all the time. do i would do " bad things " to get his attention and eventually i became a really bad person , he died then i moved with my older sister . which is where i am now actually . my sister isnt the best but whatever .

the point is that before my mom died my family used to be happy and i used to be , believe it or not , probably the sweetest and most energetic person you would of ever meet .

noq im just a screw up , i mean my family was one .

my conselhos to you , is to just be happy , it doesnt matter what type of person you are. whatever makes you truley happy and loved por yourself is really all that matters. just because youre shy and maybe a total loser doesnt mean youre gonna die.

maybe thats just who you are , and if not then okay . work on it , find real friends that are there for you 100% and talk to them in person. and then youll be really happy knowing that you have people to fall back on.
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