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Do you guys think it's over for me now?

I just cut for the first time.

And I'm sorry I'm such a hypocrite.

I told some of you guys not to cut, not to do any harm to yourselves because I thought it was going to get better.

I'm sorry I lied.

I couldn't even save myself. Why couldn't I have minded my own business and not've tried to save you guys?

So my pergunta is, will this help the pain get better?

Will cutting ruin it all in the end?
 CielXlizzy19 posted over a year ago
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seffro said:
I know how that feels.... I .... I cut once unu
I felt awkward, everyone looked at me funny and it made me even mais depressed.....never cut your own hair :b
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posted over a year ago 
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I hope you know this isent something to joke about.
SeeUV3 posted over a year ago
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^I agree.
hetalianstella posted over a year ago
AmyRosefan4eva said:
It's not over... I just don't suggest doing it anymore. It's not gonna help the pain, it's just gonna make people shun you more. My first thought when I see someone scar themselves is that there are severe personal problems that are still unsolved. Find a less harmful solution to whatever your problems are.
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posted over a year ago 
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But it feels so good. I know it sounds twisted, but somstimes I think the blood and the faint scars loo pretty adorning my wrist like that. I just can't take it anymore. The emotional pain just HURTS more.
CielXlizzy19 posted over a year ago
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It may feel good, but it's still painful.
AmyRosefan4eva posted over a year ago
Elle-C said:
Firstly, a resource that can help much mais than my words...

S.A.F.E. Alternatives website:
link

National (U.S.) Help Line:
1 800 DONTCUT

Secondly, to answer your question...

Sweetie, no, it's not over for you at all and I'm so glad that you're reaching out. Have you told a family member, friend or just someone who has real world, tangible access to you about this? I don't know you, but I'm concerned and feel so helpless right now to be of any true benefit to you. Please, if you haven't already, confide in someone (at least one someone) who can physically hold your hand and support you with all the amor and empathy that I (and I'm sure anyone who reads your plea) would amor to extend to you...but can't. I know it's not your intent to scare anyone, but I am scared for you. Please, please seek help and tell us that you have so we don't have to sit a world away and worry.

I wish you the best, much success and a sweet, happy life. ♥

Here's a virtual hug for you, but, I promise the real life ones are much better and closer than you might think. :o)
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 Firstly, a resource that can help much mais than my words... S.A.F.E. Alternatives website: http://www.selfinjury.com/ National (U.S.) Help Line: 1 800 DONTCUT Secondly, to answer your question... Sweetie, no, it's not over for you at all and I'm so glad that you're reaching out. Have you told a family member, friend or just someone who has real world, tangible access to you about this? I don't know you, but I'm concerned and feel so helpless right now to be of any true benefit to you. Please, if you haven't already, confide in someone (at least one someone) who can physically hold your hand and support you with all the amor and empathy that I (and I'm sure anyone who reads your plea) would amor to extend to you...but can't. I know it's not your intent to scare anyone, but I am scared for you. Please, please seek help and tell us that you have so we don't have to sit a world away and worry. I wish you the best, much success and a sweet, happy life. ♥ Here's a virtual hug for you, but, I promise the real life ones are much better and closer than you might think. :o)
posted over a year ago 
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Thank you, I almost cried leitura this. No, I haven't told anyone ... and I don't plan too anytime soon because I don't think any of my friends would umderstand, since I'm still in 6th grade. And teachers or family members (at least in my life) won't be there for me, they'll just scold me for being a 'rebellious teen' or whatever other label they'd wish to put on me. Sometimes it's just the fact that I'm surrounded por people who 'care', but no one to understand without judging me.
CielXlizzy19 posted over a year ago
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i know how you feel im in grade 8 and i wasent taken seriously till my mom found out i cut and my hair is starting to fall out and i whent from a size 5 to a size 1 and 0
SeeUV3 posted over a year ago
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You're most welcome, babygirl. And if you're not going to reach out to those you know; please, please reach out to those who don't. Call 1800 DONTCUT for S.A.F.E. Alternatives to self harm. Okay, love? Please don't make me worry about you needlessly...
Elle-C posted over a year ago
SeeUV3 said:
I cut about 10 times before it dosent help at the tim you may think it helps but in the end it just leaves a big scare of regret and pain. Try to think of something else everytime you think your about to cut. My friend micheal practicly saved me today . Maybe you should talk to one of your friends about it that's what I did and it helped me from cutting again. Good luck and its okay your not a hypocrite you were just looking out for the well-being of others.
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posted over a year ago 
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Thank you. :)
CielXlizzy19 posted over a year ago
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Your welcome im trying my best to get better good luck with your recovery
SeeUV3 posted over a year ago
adultswimperson said:
You should never say it's over for you just because it was your first time doing it, you should talk about you're problems with your parents or a therapist.
Things will get better after, trust me.
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posted over a year ago 
hetalianstella said:
NO.....it's definitely not over for you.
I have never cut before, but I suggest you don't continue. It may feel good but self harm won't be worth it in the end, it's not healthy and you will most likely regret it. The physical pain distracts you from the emotional pain, but then your physical health is in danger, which just puts mais stress on your emotional health.

Try something mais healthy. Instead of cutting yourself, try punching a pillow. Or even cutting up a pillow. But please try to avoid doing that to yourself.

I recommend telling an adult, talk to a school counselor or your parents. And if you just can't do that yet, a close friend. Trust me, it will be a relief, a huge weight off your chest just to get it out to anyone close to you.
If you just want someone to talk to you about this, feel free to send me a message and i will help best I can :)

Just remember, you've been through a lot but it makes you stronger, it exceeds you higher than most people. You are a beautiful human being, and I'm sure you a very loved.
I hope the best for you <3
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posted over a year ago 
mangamoo01 said:
Please, please, please don't cut yourself. I may not be fully aware of your situation, but you shouldn't be adding mais suffering and pain to what you are already going through. There is a way out, don't say its over, talk to someone, anyone. Ask for help, don't give in. It really saddens me to find out someone is inflicting self harm on themselves, it is not the right way to solve your troubles.
There is someone who cares if you do this, you may not see this just yet, but don't forget that there are people who hate to hear this about you, so please think positive.
I remember a time when everything would piss me off, I helped "sooth" this por taking an object and hitting my cama with it, this may sound silly but it helps relieve stress, try something like this, but please not using your body as the object.
If you need to talk, in any way, feel free to send me an inbox, I may be pretty close to being a stranger, but believe me, I really care.
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posted over a year ago 
GoldnSnitch_96 said:
look, its evident I have missed out on some stuff cause this dosent look like the first time you have posted, but all I know,is that you really should avoid cutting. it really is much better to talk about your problems, cutting yourself will be a decision you regret, and the scars will always be a permanent reminder of your decision.
if you really want to talk to someone, you can send me a message (: I will listen, and I will do my best to help you, no matter what situation you are in.
don't give in <3
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posted over a year ago 
cherry_Dropzx said:
sweetie, please dont go down this road, ok, i have just recovered from doing all this, and it didnt do anything to help it made everything worse. i know i dont know your situation and i cant really help you as much as i'd like to, but im telling you know that it doesnt work, because from my personal experience, it gets worse, and i kept telling myself it didnt mean anything and then came the dia that i almost died becuase of it, please dont put yourself in that position. i get the fact that you dont want to tell your friends and stuff coz i didnt tell mine either, i figured they would ditch me and call the emo freak like everyone else. i know now they wouldnt ever do that but still. and yes the scars may look cool to you right nowe but you will hate them when you get older, i still have the scars and when people see them i can totally see what theyre thinking. but i accepted that a long time atrás but the difference is that i know not to do this anymore....

my sweet i know you wont believe what we are telling you, you may want to, but there will be something holding you back - it was like that for me. i could never get over that thing that held me back, but i just wish that you will overcome that, coz for me i had to almost die before i saw everything clearly, i dont want you to find out that way. please dont give up. just think of all the things you could have achieved in life, all the people who amor you, those who could have loved you....dont give up and just hold on. im not gonna lie to you, but things will be difficult, for now, but just think of everyone around you, they should be the reason you continue in life, if you cant live for yourself. my best friend killed herself, and she almost took me with her, but i held on to life because i matter to people and so do you! YOU MATTER, YOU ARE IMPORTANT. you can do so much with your life, so please just reach out and take our hands, we are here for you, you are in our hearrts and thoughts....please message me if you need to talk about this mais <33333
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 sweetie, please dont go down this road, ok, i have just recovered from doing all this, and it didnt do anything to help it made everything worse. i know i dont know your situation and i cant really help you as much as i'd like to, but im telling you know that it doesnt work, because from my personal experience, it gets worse, and i kept telling myself it didnt mean anything and then came the dia that i almost died becuase of it, please dont put yourself in that position. i get the fact that you dont want to tell your friends and stuff coz i didnt tell mine either, i figured they would ditch me and call the emo freak like everyone else. i know now they wouldnt ever do that but still. and yes the scars may look cool to you right nowe but you will hate them when you get older, i still have the scars and when people see them i can totally see what theyre thinking. but i accepted that a long time atrás but the difference is that i know not to do this anymore.... my sweet i know you wont believe what we are telling you, you may want to, but there will be something holding you back - it was like that for me. i could never get over that thing that held me back, but i just wish that you will overcome that, coz for me i had to almost die before i saw everything clearly, i dont want you to find out that way. please dont give up. just think of all the things you could have achieved in life, all the people who amor you, those who could have loved you....dont give up and just hold on. im not gonna lie to you, but things will be difficult, for now, but just think of everyone around you, they should be the reason you continue in life, if you cant live for yourself. my best friend killed herself, and she almost took me with her, but i held on to life because i matter to people and so do you! YOU MATTER, YOU ARE IMPORTANT. you can do so much with your life, so please just reach out and take our hands, we are here for you, you are in our hearrts and thoughts....please message me if you need to talk about this mais <33333
posted over a year ago 
herpinaderpson said:
I don't always say deep things, but you seem to be in a serious situation.
Nothing's over until you decide to completely give up.
I know this, because I've cut too. I was in great depression and felt completely hopeless. To be honest, I liked it at first. The slight pain caused por the blade felt like an escape from reality. Yes, I actually felt like that.
Soon, my friends started asking how I got the scars on my wrist. I couldn't tell them; because if I did, somebody else would sure learn it and tell it to the counselor, and the counselor would call my parents, and lots of crap followed por it. Instead, I kept it as a secret.
I had to stop, because the scars would itch all the time and that drove me crazy.
I realized that I didn't have to give a shit what other people thought. Not even my parents. That's how I decided to stop cutting.

Cutting seems to be a good escape from pain. In fact, it actually is an escape, but only for the first time. After a while it might become an addiction and that might lead to death por blood loss. I advise not cutting deep.

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posted over a year ago 
snakemanfan said:
The pain never gets better, I haven't cut my self but I'm quite a dark person under my bubbly attitude .... Pain never gets better only worse ....
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 The pain never gets better, I haven't cut my self but I'm quite a dark person under my bubbly attitude .... Pain never gets better only worse ....
posted over a year ago 
johnlemon said:
NOT AT ALL! I've never cut myself before, but I know depression. It really doesn't feel like it'll get better, but I assure you, it does. It's never to late or over until it's irreversible. Meaning you're gone. But as long as you're still alive, you should keep fighting. Please get professional help! They won't see you as a "rebellious teenager" or whatever you fear, it'll be taken seriously and whoever it is will want to help you. Good luck and stay strong.
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