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I need help. On the brink of breaking down

Okay, so prepare for quite a story. Sorry for making you guys listen.

I'm a new student who has been in the school for almost a ano and there's this really mean and bossy girl who everyone used to dislike. Suddenly, she changed and my besties started to like her. She copies every action they do. Ever since, my besties started to slap me and abuse me. I figured that i'm kinda a doormat [need help on this too]. So, i decided to organise a trip with my besties and didn't invite the mean girl. Huge mistake. Somehow, the mean girl found out and decided to organise the same trip and invite everyone except me. And now, there's another girl organising the same trip. I'm starting to get paranoid. Also, I have música practice. There's another girl that everybody dislikes. She keeps blaming me when our teacher scolds us for messing up. She takes my phone and glasses and shakes me on the shoulder till at one point, I fell. It's really irritating. I need help :/ Sorry, for making you guys read the entire story. Just hoping someone out there could help.
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thx so much 4 yr help :)
BlackRShooter6 posted over a year ago
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seffro said:
I wouldn't call people like that, "besties " or even friends
I have this one girl at my school who's done the same
I hate the word but for lack of s better one; shes a bitch
She "supposedly" isn't that bad now and is dating a friend of mine but I won't buy it.
You should get better friends or make them treat you as a person and just ignore this other girl
You can easily live without them, so try and fix it, if not, forget them and do something else
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I wouldn't call people like that, "besties " or even friends I have this one girl at my school who's done the same I hate the word but for lack of s better one; shes a cadela, puta She "supposedly" isn't that bad now and is dating a friend of mine but I won't buy it. You should get better friends or make them treat you as a person and just ignore this other girl You can easily live without them, so try and fix it, if not, forget them and do something else
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yeah, don't settle for people who don't help you and are mean, besties are supposed to be there for you forever and always, but they are not so you need to think about whether you want to continue living like that or new besties. you will find new besties that are worth your time and friendship. dw, you will be ok :)
cherry_Dropzx posted over a year ago
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well said :)
coriann posted over a year ago
Mileym said:
First of all um sorry.. I didnt get your story it's a bit confusing.. Bt i'd like say tht if ur frnds or ur so called "besties" dnt treat you well and left u cuz they made a new frnd.. They'r nt wrth ua concern.. U shud try to make new deserving frnds and enjoy ua life!


Best of luck ;)
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:D yeah!
coriann posted over a year ago
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*Shudders at the grammar* anyway. I agree.
wantadog posted over a year ago
haremaster99 said:
First off: **IF THEY HURT YOU. GET AWAY FROM THEM ASAP** it's not WORTH getting physically hurt por people who dropped you like a hot potato for this bully! Ignore them. Stay away from them. They are NOT you're friends or "besties"

Second: have you talked to any people (besides just now on here) about this situation? I suggest you do if not ^^

Hope that helps ^^
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she's right these people don't act like besties from what i heard
coriann posted over a year ago
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i had some friends like that :\
coriann posted over a year ago
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^same here. But I made new friends and I'm really happy :3
haremaster99 posted over a year ago
pureawesome15 said:
Find new friends. dont say anything to the other "friends" of yours. just find some new people to hang out with. ive done this before, and it worked like a charm

also, about that girl in música class; just tell the teacher. Thats BULLYING! its not cool! i get bullied still, but its for my height and other aleatório things. just tell your teacher or principal. let them get in trouble.
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Lady_Rebel said:
What I personally would do is say "Fuck you" and go find some new friends, but I don't think that would work for you. Eithr that or soco them. Don't do that either.

Don't try to exclude just the first bitchy girl, but all the bitchy girls. Make new friends and have sleepovers, go on trips, hang out together at school. Be extremely polite to your ex-best friend and her new role model. None of them are worth your time or pain.
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yeah maybe you can make new friends, that way they might realize what jerks they were when they lose you :P
coriann posted over a year ago
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or not you never know XD
coriann posted over a year ago
101trx said:
tell them off, fool! (sorry, i call everyone fool) and find some new friends. or tell someone about this...this ain't right. =(
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XD telling them off might not be such a bad idea...lol jk
coriann posted over a year ago
coriann said:
i know this is hard to hear but you're friends are atuação like jerks, the way you said it it seems like if they are all sort of bullying you, im sorry but it just seems like bullying to me, i don't think anyone deserves to be bullied, im not the best at giving friendship advice, im a lonely girl with no real friends outside of fanpop, it's hard to leave your friend, i mean everyone needs someone to hang out with and have fun, just keep in mind that they are not atuação like real friend right now because they are letting you get bullied, i don't know why they are behaving this way or if you can do to stop them, but for yourself you have to know that it's gonna be okay and you're just going through a bad time, clear you head and figure out a good solution on your own because i think that other people can give you conselhos but only you can decide what's best :) so good luck with that and i hope you make it out alive XD
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wait, maybe your friends aren't bullying you, just those two girls but your friends are just letting it happen, oi i have a suggestion...maybe you can tell them how you feel away from the two girls okay? :) and if that doesn't work then your friends are really atuação like jerks but that's life :P
coriann posted over a year ago
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