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If u were a parent would you want your daughter/son dating in middle school/high school?

ok so my parents don't want me invovled in dating because it would effect my school work and they said i can't encontro, data until after college, does that sound reasonable?
 iluvsmj posted over a year ago
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NomyCake said:
I think that parents controlling how their kids encontro, data is unreasonable. I think that dating should be the choice of the child, not the parents. Especially when it comes to teenagers because most people become interested in relationships and dating in their teens, and that's when they learn about such things.
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posted over a year ago 
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i agree ^-^
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
Animeanimal said:
as long as i knew who the person was and what they were doing at all times. They would kind of having me tagging along.
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omgemg said:
I know people that started dating in 3rd or 4th grade.
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Antelo said:
Your parents are mad and selfish.
Your life is too short to wait until after college.
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totally agree ^-^
Goldilottes posted over a year ago
Goldilottes said:
What will affect your school work is if you find someone you amor but can't openyl encontro, data them, so you have to either do it in secret or not at all which will really play on your mind and bring you down. trust me, when you're in amor truly then not hell or high water will stop you wanting to be in love, and whether your parents like it or not, thats a fact of teenage reality and its something theyre going to have to deal with.
what if you meet the right person soon, but listen to your parents and pass por the opportunity? i mean, wtf that would suck. they were in amor once too. all our parents were.

The answer to your pergunta is that YOU are ready to encontro, data when YOU are in amor and YOU feel mature enough to handle it. afterall, your parents don't know every aspect of your personal life so how will they know if you are keeping it from them.

My conselhos to you would be that you should wait until you're genuinely in amor (you'll know it when it comes- it'll hit you like a train) then you should start getting into talks with your parents about how you would prefer not to live this secret life just so they can see everything through rose-colored glasses in their deluded world, when really they're putting their own daughter in danger por not letting you be open with them.

Although i can see they only want the best for you, the mais your parents try to restrain you the mais you'll want to break free and rebel, so what theyre doing is wrong.

The truth is, teenagers encontro, data whether their parents like it or not. the key is that the LUCKY teens are the ones whose parents accept and respect that.
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Jeffersonian said:
My parents said I couldn't encontro, data until I was sixteen, which is pretty reasonable. If they don't regulate, you've got these junior high kids talking about who they slept with, for crying out loud they're too young for sex.
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posted over a year ago 
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i've heard SIXTH graders talking about it o.O
Sandfire_Paiger posted over a year ago
mrsspencereid said:
As long as you keep up with your schoolwork and maintain a healthy relationship with your parents, go for it. Ew, now i sound like a parent.
Just go for it.
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its reasonable
tracytracy2000 posted over a year ago
breebree446 said:
Not to pergunta your parents' authority but when you go to college, you'll be eighteen, a legal adult. You could do what you want then.

Your perfil says your thirteen. Your still in middle school, right? Just focus on your school work now and discuss dating when you get older. Your to young to be thinking about that stuff right now, it just makes everything mais complicated. Trust me. Just enjoy being young while you still can.

Your parents just probably have your best interest at coração right now. If you talk to them and explain that you want to date, they may let you. Have a mature heart-to-heart conversation with them. If they won't, it's okay. It's not the end of the world. You'll have mais chances in the future :)
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someone_save_me said:
yeah, i'd let them.
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Sandfire_Paiger said:
i would say a 'serious' dating relashionship should start in about 7th grade or around that...
idk.
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MsPropHouse said:
My kids would have to wait to get married after collage but I'd let them encontro, data in late middle school early high school
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Maachi said:
As a parent I find this highly unreasonable.I allowed my children to go on group dates as young as 13.I allowed my children to encontro, data at 15.Kids need social interaction with peers as well as recreation time.
As long as you are atuação responsibly and don't engage in sex,I think you should be able to date.
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lady336 said:
It depends if the r going to fast in there dating if it's to were they are laying on tube of each ather I would not light my son or daughter dat because that is over to fare.but if they r just huging and beijar I am ok with that.so middle school my mom is lighting me dat in middle now so I would be ok with that.
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