what would you do if you saw your friend's boyfriend beijar another girl and you know if you tell her,she is going to think you are being jealous or you are lying????but if you do not tell her it is wrong so what do you do??
If you're sure that it was her boyfriend and another girl, tell her. She needs to know.
Your friend might get in a state at first and defend him, that's only natural, but if she's a real friend she will believe you, or at least confront with him and hear his side.
But don't hold it in, because you're right, that would be wrong, and your friend deserves to know the truth. Good luck hun! :)
I would tell her regardless of what she might think of me. Whether she chooses to believe me or not is her problem. As far as I'm concerned I've done the right thing.
Ask the other girl if she knows he's going out with my friend, ask the boyfriend what's going on, then tell my friend, if she's a true friend she'll believe me xxx
First of all,get substantial evidence.It will b a real torture for her that she won't know if you're telling the truth.It is risky to do it yourself because if he understands something he may come up with an excuse or blame you to your friend for lying.You have to surprise him.So get someone else to do it for who isn't familiar to your friend's boyfriend to learn when and where they meet take pictures and all that stuff.
posted over a year ago
that was what i thot at first but think it is much better when i do it myself with some evidence!!
well if u know for sure that she is not going to believe you then u gotta do some spy work...take pics of them and gather any evidence you can.take photos,video tape them or go through their messages at their mobile phones if possible....good luck...