i have a lil problem

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The dude's nine years older than you. In saying he loves you, he likely meant in a little sister kind of way, or he's a sick pervert who you shouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.

Either way, there's no way in Hell you should go out with him. If you were in your thirties age wouldn't matter, but you're a kid, and he could use you any way he wanted and you'd be powerless to him. You don't know what you're doing.

And plus, your interests are too different for you two to work well together. He has a job and other responsibilities, bills to pay. The biggest thing in your life is probably school. You can't really relate to each other there. And in terms of other interests - like música - you might not have much in common, either. The years between you two are too great, and you're from different generations. He's mais mature than you are.

So for God's sake, don't go out with the guy. That's just creepy. O_o
Find someone your own age...

Well if you amor him, you amor him. Just make sure hes not a rapist!

If he's on parole and he's 9 years older then you, that's just creepy. Don't.
No matter what your coração might tell you in this situation, listen to your brain. He doesn't seem like that good of a guy to date. But you know, there's plenty of other fishes in the sea!

It would b totally insane going out with such a guy.Come on!U r 13 and he's 21!Who knows what'll happen to u(I suppose u can imagine) if u get together.If he has told u that he loves u not as a friend or brother and I don't think it's easy to confuse these things he's a twisted paiderast!I think u had better tell ur parents.Don't do anything stupid!!! Be CAREFULL!!!

Ok so they are not the same age so what!love is love!BUT STILL BE CAREFUL!!!!!

dont. he might just be sayin that, then he would rape you, then you would have to care for a baby, and he wouldnt help, you would loose ur virginity, and then..... you would loose everything, and be poor cuz u lost everything when you have to care for a kid, and its becuz, you decided to encontro, data him then he wants to go further. men are pigs. ALso being preggers at 13 might not be so fun....

Aww ok sweetie I won't bash on you but, if he's 9 years older then you then, your chances of going out with him is slim at your age. My advice: encontro, data people your own age :P