Has anyone but me noticed that all the host club refer to Harahi as 'she' or 'her' all the time, while they are hosting. Why do the fã girls never notice this?

Uhhh...are you talking about subtitled or dubbed? If you're talking about dubbed, I've sworn myself off of even looking at it, so I couldn't help you there.

As for subtitled, they've always acted like she was a guy. They call her simply 'Haruhi,' adding no titles to the end, save for Honey senpai, who calls her 'Haru-chan,' but he does it in a cutesy manner.

maybe fãs thought they call haruhi as 'she' or 'her' thinking that they are calling like that because maybe it mais sound cute?!?

doesn't make sense through :P