Am I bi or lesbian ?

I'm kinda like that, hey.

It doesn't really matter if you think a guy is hot (I'm a lesbian and I still think some guys are hot too) - what matters is if you could get sexually or romantically involved with them. If yes, you could see yourself being involved with a guy then maybe you're bisexual. If no, then maybe you're lesbian.

But keep in mind your sexual and romantic orientations don't have to be the same. You might be a bisexual homoromantic, and be able to be sexually involved with either gender but only romantically involved with girls. It's not likely, but it happens.

So just give yourself some time to sort out your feelings, and eventually you'll figure out which label feels right. I identified as bi for about a ano before realizing I was gay. Doesn't matter how long it takes. xo