looking to get back into animê

I would say you should check out vampire bund or Fruits basket they are both on Netflix. Vampire bund doesn't focus so much on the romance element of the animê but the romance is still there.

I don't really watch a lot on hulu and I don't have netflix so I'm not sure the ones they offer but I watch most of mine on animefreak.com. They have a lot of shows for free and there isn't commercials. So i'll just list some shows that I like and hopefully you can find it on you're preferred sites but if not that's a seguro site.
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Natsume Yuujinchou- My all-time favorito anime. The concept is amazing, the songs beautiful, high quality animation, and deep characters and plot. Everything is so well thought out about the anime. Not a romance though. It does have some action and adventure. It's both slow and fast paced. Sad and funny.

Kaichou wa Maid-Sama!- Cute romance with some humor. Very strong female character. Animation is good, story line interesting, and fun characters.

The Devil is a Part-timer!- So hilarious and it has romance, action, adventure, and sobrenatural powers. The jokes are so well-paced and relevant. Some of my favorito characters are in this anime. Very well animated, great music, interesting story line.

Ghost Hunt- Romance, scary, very well thought up story lines. You won't be able to predict how things will go. Keeps you on your toes.

Kimi ni Todoke..... And.... Say "I amor you"
Did these two animes together because they both were such sweet romance animes. They both were cute, well-done, and won't be disappointed if you're looking for amor stories.

Zetsuen no Tempest- If you are looking for mais of a complex amor story this is for you. Great animation, well-done plot with lots of twist, and great music.

Brothers Conflict- My favorito reverse harem anime. Don't know if you like reverse harem but this one is very well done. The story does it in a way you won't know who she will choose and episodes mix them all in.

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Sorry I hope I didn't overwhelm you, I tried to not list too many! Just google them and see if the stories are for you. All have super quality. Video is Natume Yuujinchou 1st season opening.

Gundam Build Fighters

Rosario + Vampire(Has a lot of action and romance, can be inappropriate)
SAO(Mostly violence has a little romance twords the end)

Tokyo Ravens,Soredemo Sekai wa Utsukishi,Unbreakable Machine-Doll,Nagi no Asukara,Boku wa Minna Kawaiisou,Dog Days,My Romantic Teen Comedy.Try this first,perhaps you will like it.

Here are the ones on Netflix...

Eden Of The East(Also the two filmes are on there):)
Trigun(Also this animê movie is also on there):)
Blue Exorcist
Fairy Tail
Okami - San And Her Seven Campanions
Samurai Champloo
Hetalia(This has one movie on there)
Black Butler
Death Note
Soul Eater
Attack On Titan
Ouran High School Host Club
Fullmetal Alchemist

Now on Hulu... I don't know what animê is on there...:-/