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Wow, tots original, I know... but there's this guy at my school, and I'm having troubles seeing if I should be progressivo, para a frente with him or not.
This guy (let's call him S) is one of the most popular kids in school. He's student body president, he has tons of friends, he plays piano, he sings... he's everyone's absolute favorite. And I can't help but think he likes me. He'll always get nervous around me (no other girls, just me!) and I usually catch him staring at me: his face would turn a pinkish-red and we'd hold eye contact before either one of us turns away. He can never talk to me straight and his body language appears to be really nervous whenever he's around me.
I want to be progressivo, para a frente with S, but I'm afraid that if I'm too progressivo, para a frente I might come off as clingy or strange, but if I'm too lacking then he might lose interest all together.
Before, I used to like this guy (let's call him B) and I was quite progressivo, para a frente with him. I'd laugh at stuff he'd say, I'd smile and talk with him, I even got his cell phone number. But let's say I was brainwashed por this typical cadela, puta (who was my so called "best friend" back then, but I recently found out she liked him too), who told me to tell B I liked him which caused him to reject me.
With S, we recently had our last school dance and throughout the whole dance he & his other friends were looking for me. At first I thought it was just another popular girl, but it turns out it was me he was looking for since after the dance his friends got really upset and mad with me and they wouldn't tell me why. S also appeared to be really upset and wouldn't talk much at school the seguinte day, and seemed pretty sad when he would look at me.
I really like him and whenever I talk to him, I can never think straight. I always tell myself to think that he's just another guy and that it doesn't matter, but I can never say anything around him: and he gets that way, too. (he usually stutters when he talks to me so our conversations usually go astray). I want
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to talk to him without getting nervous, but I really don't know how to start. & please don't suggest things like "asking friends for help" since I don't really have friends at school that can help me. My mom has suggested for me to tell S I like him straight, but I
enlight3ment posted over a year ago
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scared that things will happen just like they did with B: shit hitting the fan. I really like S and I don't want our relationship to get mais awkward... Help soon if you can. I want to be able to get somewhere with him before school is over. :) Xx
enlight3ment posted over a year ago
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Stampyfan545 said:
Ok so this happened to me too because I had a friend I thought he liked me then rejected me and yada yada yada it didn't work so if he will not talk to you go and ask him why but don't go and bug him about it then he'll get upset and get mad but just ask him twice every week choose the days carefully and tell his friends that they don't controll his feelings they controll their own feelings and that is that ok so hope you take my conselhos good luck
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