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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I've had those problems before, so hopefully you feel a little better knowing that others have had this dilemma as well.
First off, one of the many warnings about guys: make sure that they're not only nice to you. You don't want those types. If he's truly only rude to those he doesn't get along with because of a true, honest-to-goodness problem in the past, then that's fine. You certainly wouldn't like one who doesn't get along with your friends, correct?
Moving forward, don't worry about rejections. Most of the time, if your friends believe that he's liked you for a while, then you have an excellent chance of being with this special someone. Go on and give it a shot; a friend's eyes are not jaded, thus they are mostly correct about their notions. I was too much of a coward myself to tell the guy I liked the truth, but my friend helped me out. It ended up that he liked me back. You have a great chance, so don't think otherwise, alright?
Also, it's normal to feel rejection. It's fine for you to feel that way; it's always a scary thing. Don't take this as a way to scare you, but even if things don't work out, it's not the end of the world. He'll still be your friend -- guys really appreciate the honesty and confidence that a girl has in telling them the truth. They also like it when girls are straightforward. In other words, don't use hints or write/say anything long. That is, unless he's the type that likes poems and letters and such. Most of the time, however, honesty and straightforwardness will always pull through.
I hope that you'll be able to tell him soon. You don't have to do it alone, either -- have a friend help you walk up to him and say it.
P.S. Your problem is not "pathetic", so don't have low self-esteem/confidence. If you have anything to say, go on and say what you need to. I, along with every other helpful soul on this spot, will be there to help you.
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