Ugh, I really hate mix-messages situations. -_- I was in one recently myself with my crush.
So, I read this pergunta last night and I've thought about it. It seems like to me that if he hadn't told you that he likes another girl, that he definitely likes you. If somebody stares and smiles at you, that is a big sign that they like you. But not only did your crush do
that, but he also held your hand.
And, yes, sometimes guys lie to throw a girl off. Maybe they want to play things out some more, or they want to wait and see if the girl they likes really likes him back. Or something. XD Guys can be complicated.
Here's a link that might help you know if he truly likes you or not:
link This might help you too:
link So, okay. XD I think you should wait a little longer and see what happens. Play things out a little. If he flirts, flirt back. If he smiles at you smile back (basically what MileySelena982 said), and see how he reacts. I understand that you're shy, because I am too, but when the time comes, you might want to talk to him about how you feel. For us shy people, I would do texting over actual talking. BUT, keep in mind, texting is very indirect and he might not reply right away.
If you want to ask him if he likes you, build up to the conversation first. Like, "hey, I want to ask you a question, but I don't want anything to be awkward between us." Don't just pop the pergunta on him, because it might freak him out and he might lie to you. (again, if he did before)
I'm sorry if this didn't help much. =/ Mixed signals situations are always the hardest to deal with. If you like, you can read this:
link It's conselhos that I gave to MileySelena982 once about her situation, which is similar to yours in some ways.
Also, I think you should try to find out mais information about him secretly. Like, if he likes another girl, find out who the girl is. (But, back to when he said that he likes someone, are you
positive that he said he likes another girl?) But, don't ask your crush anything through friends. It's way too indirect, and you're just gonna end up even mais confused. (Trust me on that one)
So, good luck!!! :D And tell me what happens!! :)
- Vanillamoon08 (a.k.a Natasha or Tashie)