i need help on dealing with hard times!( be careful what you dont wish for)prop for reply

Oh my gosh, thats awful :-(. I'm so sorry.

First of all, it's not your fault that your friend has cancer. You need to support her at this tough time. Let her know she's in your prayers, and help her in any way you can. And don't worry, just because she has cancer dosen't mean you are going to get it.

For the segundo thing, theres not much you can do. I'm sorry that it happened, but I am not good at giving conselhos for hard stuff like that.

As for the third thing, we all make mistakes. Forgive yourself and mover on. If he or his girlfriend asks or says anything, admit to doing it and say that you were wrong and wernt trying to do anything to get between them or break them up.

Good luck with this issue! Know that you are in my prayers!

1. i would try to help your friend feel better. just because she has cancer doesent mean that she wont make it. there are many surviors.
2.i would just try to forget that whole situation.
3. i would talk to him and ask him why he did wat he did.
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i used i would the whole time.

When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile. Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind, For as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your coração broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in amor with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and amor like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no segundo chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in amor and most of all, live in the moment because every segundo you spend angry or upset is a segundo of happiness you can never get back
Live with no excuses and amor with no regrets, cause in the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away

AND!!!!!

Understand the past, let go of pain and sorrow, for if do the road will open and everything will go right
For amor comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still amor even though they've been hurt before.
The future is what you make it. Only you can make it depressing or happy. Only you can make yourself have a bad future or a good one. Sometimes I ask myself why not choose to die? Well the answer to that is because we have the power to change the future. I chose to change it.

plus u dont have to give me a prop

God, im so so sorry. my dad died of cancer when i was about 7 i think. i didn't really understand it at the time so i don't know if i was sad. so i don't really know how to give you coping conselhos with death issues. but you are in my prayers and thoughts from this dia on. and just because your friend got cancer, does NOT mean you will. but make sure to be there for your friend because even though this is a hard time for you, it also is for her. and i'm sure she will be there for you in return. and about the crush thing, just don't let that happen again. even though you like him, he DOES have a girlfriend. so just let the past be the past. and if you feel like crying, don't hold it in. just cry. it helps. maybe some people won't always be there for you, but God always will be. he welcomes you with open arms.