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Do you think it's possible to think somebody looks "sexy" without feeling a sexual attraction to them?

A weird question, I know. The reason I'm asking this is because a few days ago, when I said I thought a guy on TV looked sexy, my friend told me that I wasn't allowed to find anybody sexy because I'm asexaul. But I think she was a little confused, and to me they've always meant two different things. Because I've heard straight people say that people of the same sex look sexy and gay people say that people of the other sex look sexy. What are your thoughts?
 Do you think it's possible to think somebody looks "sexy" without feeling a sexual attraction to them?
 cruella posted over a year ago
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TheMagicLoki said:
Of course. I am a heterosexual male, but por objective logic I am forced to acknowledge that Chris Hemsworth is sexy, despite my complete lack of a sexual attraction to him.
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posted over a year ago 
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Ya man I feel ya on that.
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
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zanhar1 said:
Yes. Just because you find a person attractive doesn't mean that ya wanna screw him or her.

I'm ace as well, I think Lana Parrilla is fine as hell but I'm not sexually attracted to her. Appreciating beauty and sexual attraction are totally different.
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THaSlimJim said:
I see attractive females all the time and im a gay dude
like u dont want to have to have sex with some1 to think they have look nice
like if u think the Mona Lisa is pretty that doesnt mean u wanna have sex with a painting lol
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FlightofFantasy said:
Absolutely. I'm also asexual, and I say so-and-so is sexy a lot, even though I'm not sexually attracted to them. It's just another word for good-looking, attractive, hot, etc., to me at least.
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Canada24 said:
yes
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Nick3600 said:
just say "no homo"
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uploaded900 said:
Sexy could mean many different things, like I think inanimate objects are sexy, that doesnt mean Im sexualky attracted to them.

As for people, I only use "sexy" to describe men. Sexy does mean secually attractive after all. I dont find women sexy, but I can see why others would.
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BlindBandit92 said:
Imho I think an ace can think someone is sexy without wanting to get with them sexually. Sexy is also another term for attractive. There's different ways in which someone can be attractive. For an example. I can find someone's body very sexy but I don't have to get with them like that. But for personal reasons I use the term "attractive" to avoid any misunderstandings because I am a straight guy and alot of people coin "sexy" with "Wow I want to have sex with that person,etc" It's how our society is really. Like I said sexy could be used in many connotations. So your friend was being ignorant basically.
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Zeppie said:
Depends on the person and what those words mean to them.

I mean I can find a person attractive. But for me attractiveness is not the same thing as sexy.
I literally only save the word sexy for someone I find sexually attractive, so I rarely use the word.

So for me in this case, no, I can't find someone sexy without feeling sexual attraction to them. Because that word to me is specific and isn't the same if I find a person just generally good looking.

But I think some people use the word mais loosely, which is fine too.
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dudedudedude101 said:
Yes it is if someone you see you like and think is extremely sexy than its ok to dream of being in cama with them but it is probably not likely to happen even though they got some serious sex
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Harpaw8 said:
of course you can! I find people sexy, but sometimes those people might not have a personality I click with
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anaswill said:
Absolutely; I'm bi but this happens to me too -- sometimes the body feels differently about people than the brain does, idk.
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