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Your advice?

Okay, so I've been friends with this guy for four years. He's been bullied pretty much all of his life, and I've always stuck por his side. Even when people made fun of me for hanging out with him, I didn't care. We've always had this deep connection, and we loved each other like brother and sister.

Recently, these girls have been harassing him. Telling him to kill himself and saying he did things in which he didn't. I helped him through this rough patch, and it was emotional for both of us.

About two days after this happened, he slowly stopped responding to my texts. And then, he stopped responding overall. I thought he was just busy, but it turned out he was texting everyone but me. My friends would ask him about me, and when they did he just would ignore the pergunta and/or not respond.

A dia or two later, I was on the bus, and he sat with another kid. The kid asked him about me, and the guy looked straight at me and said "we've never talked before." It honestly crushed me, and now I can't stand to hear his voice or see him around.

Why do you think he did this? We haven't talked ever since, and I don't feel like he wants to make it up at all I (niether do I, really). Any conselhos from the fanpop community?
 rapunzelsgold_ posted over a year ago
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Riku114 said:
You should probably confront him yourself about it and make sure he is okay with his problems first. This might be a branch off from it, so dont throw him away and hate him so quickly. People who have problems, may it be genetic, psychological, or scars from trauma, tend to do things that might not be the wisest.

Though some reasons I could come up with is.....

1) Someone made you seem worthless than the damage you would cause for him
a: This may be because you gained a bad reputation and people hated him because of you and thats what they said
b: It was a bargain of sort
c: Someone said a lie to him about you that made you seem less than what you should be
d: A threat was placed
e: You became 'bad for his reputation'

2) Its the drag on from something psychological/traumatizing
a: Maybe you remind him of something bad
b: Maybe you bring back bad memories of the past despite being the fonte of the good

3) Something you did bothered him or vice versa
a: Something uncomfortable. Maybe he ended up liking you, maybe he thought you ended up liking him.
b: Maybe you became too close
c: Maybe trust issues

4) He is trying to start anew
a: You are part of his past that must be dropped.
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Wish you the best of luck though
Riku114 posted over a year ago
Haonako said:
you need to pull through and if neither of you wants to make up then leave him like you dont need him tf
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Thats kind of harsh. Especially for a friend of 4 years that powered through so much
Riku114 posted over a year ago
pablopj said:
You say there people who been mean to him, there's a chance they lied to him about you so he would stay away from you, the best thing to do in a case like this is to talk with him, find a way to get to him and ask, if they lied something like you hate him, then he can be feeling bad, maybe even close to ending his life, if you want to know, you have to be the one to talk
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Dreamtime said:
damn
probably someone said bad things about you to him to make him avoid you
face him just tell him hear him out there must be a mistake here
hope things goes well for you
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