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What are the qualities u hate about guys?

Cheaters,liars,backstabbers,flatters,over possesiveness and over protectiveness,unhonest,heartbreakers,over romantic,and mostly the two mist things I hate in a guy is .......well I don't like if he is a pervert,racist,or if he makes remarks about girls which are or may be abusive
I like guys who respects a girls privacy,secrets and also about her likes and dislikes and always try to keep he happy
 DaringDevil posted over a year ago
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Makeupdiva said:
Pretty much everything you listed. I don't like guys who act all sweet when they are with a girl they like or are dating than when they are in the public with their buddies they end up atuação like total douchbags. I also hate when they keep repeating how beautiful I look, I mean, it's nice but all the time, it gets mais and mais hard to believe that it's true. I also don't like it when a guy can't commit to a relationship. I haven't been in many but I would want a man who can commit and isn't afraid to be in a serious relationship.
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posted over a year ago 
BlindBandit92 said:
You know if I posted a pergunta for the reverse. I wonder how much hate I'd get. And this is kinda why I don't come on as much anymore. So much bashing.. To Original poster: I understand you may have not intended that outcome but jeez. This is exactly why sometimes I don't like the fact fanpop is mostly girls.
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Blind, you know I amor you and respect you as a user, but some of your comments on this post are making me sad. Your defensiveness in this post is unsettling and reminds me a lot of when recently that "yesallwomen" hashtag trended on twitter following the UCSB shooting and men felt it was a perfect time to trend the hashtag "notallmen". Generalizations are not cool, I agree with that. I've met plenty of fuckwads in both genders. However, that doesn't make it okay to take it out on women who distrust men. I admit that I personally distrust men. That doesn't mean I hate men in the slightest, it means I'm wary of them. Why? Because it's men, not women, who will be the ones to rape me or murder me. That's off-topic a bit, but it relates to the fact that misogyny is deep-seated in our society and it's unavoidable. For you, a (probably) white male, you are privileged. You don't have to worry about walking down the rua and getting raped. You don't have to worry about being paid less just because you have a vagina. You don't have to deal with what women deal with on a DAILY BASIS. Like I said, I do amor you. I'm not trying to start an argument, just a friendly debate. But when you are in a position of privilege and have never experienced being oppressed, it's really shit to get offended at the oppressed who have a problem with their oppressors. Instead of getting offended, maybe you could have some empathy and recognize where the women are coming from? And have enough faith in yourself to admit that a majority of men are misogynistic and it's not okay? But that you personally are not misogynistic and once a woman gets to know you she'll see this is the case. i'm white and I can fully admit that white people are racist shitheads and don't blame minorities for not trusting white people, even though I'm white myself. It's about being able to step back and not be selfish and not make OTHER PEOPLE'S struggles about YOURSELF.
sarabeara posted over a year ago
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(Please not that the caps are not meant to be me yelling lol. I couldn't do italics so I had to do caps instead. It makes me sound angry when i'm really not)
sarabeara posted over a year ago
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I don't get why the UCSB shooting brought up all this gender related nonsense. It's not how the crazed maniac was misogynistic or some shit, he hated everyone from both genders and obviously was sick in the head. The news should bring about discussions of mental illness and stricter gun controls, and also on the condolences of the victims of the murder.
neonClouds posted over a year ago
Book-Freak said:
I don't like how there is an expectation for guys to be 'strong' - e.g. show nothing that could be considered a 'weakness'. It's society's fault though, not the fault of guys.
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I hate that, too. Guys should be strong and not show feelings, right? I call BS on that one. So, yeah, I definitely agree with you :)
blackpanther666 posted over a year ago
Cyanide7 said:
:|
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lol xD
Ichigo127 posted over a year ago
sarabeara said:
How misogynistic so many of them are.
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AnimeFan66 said:
I totally agree with everything you listed, but if there's really one thing I don't like about guys is the way they think of girls as far as sexuality concerns. And the fact they get "turned on" por the sights of nudity or the size of a girl's bust. I mean, what kind of thing is that? :/ I may be a guy but it's not like I ever think of girls that way- not ever, ever. And I don't mean to offend others out there. It's your business, but I'm just forming an opinion here.
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i'm completely with u!
Ichigo127 posted over a year ago
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i'm completely with u in that opinion!
Ichigo127 posted over a year ago
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You are a very respecting guy :)
16falloutboy posted over a year ago
Seastar4374 said:
I hate how guys only go for looks half the time. Then they give girls like me standards that we have to be skinny, or wear make up. I hate when they just call girls like me "too ugly" or "too fat" and even "she isn't what I'm looking for." It's like what the hell?! You never even gave me a chance and yet you judge me. I also hate what you listed.
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I hate how guys only go for looks half the time. Then they give girls like me standards that we have to be skinny, or wear make up. I hate when they just call girls like me "too ugly" or "too fat" and even "she isn't what I'm looking for." It's like what the hell?! You never even gave me a chance and yet you judge me. I also hate what you listed.
posted over a year ago 
superDivya said:
The quality a hate about most guys is they have one keen habit:
Breathing.
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posted over a year ago 
sieluvzsoul said:
I dunno you got 18 hours



Jk!



I hate how they're not there when they're needed the most. Like seriously one of exes saw with his own eyes and heard with his own ears someone say I was ugly, and fake and that I stuff my bra, and then when we were walking início he didn't even ask if I was ok he just talked about sports and shit which I like but still....I coulda used a nice talk about the insults



And I also hate everything everyone has listed above
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posted over a year ago 
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Omg all men are bad because ex didn't comfort me when I needed him. You're kidding right?
x-Yumi-x3 posted over a year ago
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jeez no need to be a jerk about it
sieluvzsoul posted over a year ago
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and besides I didn't say all men. jeez fuck off
sieluvzsoul posted over a year ago
Nerdbuster2 said:
I guess I would say, when he is dishonest... he shouldn't pretend to amor a girl when he doesn't... and sometimes it is so hard to tell... if someone pleases you, makes you feel good but doesn't mean it, then when you find out, it is mais heartbreaking than if he had told you straight away that he didn't like you. The thought of someone lying to me or cheating on me is the worst thing I can imagine... :'((
I hope that guy doesn't do that to me ever... <3
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posted over a year ago 
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Why not ask?
x-Yumi-x3 posted over a year ago
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u mean ask him if he's cheating on me?
Nerdbuster2 posted over a year ago
springely said:
>Implying
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posted over a year ago 
vegeta007 said:
Okay so what you're implying is that only guys lie, cheat in relationship, backstab, are unhonest, over romantic, perverted and racists ? Because everyone lies, girls and guys both lie so it's not really just a guy thing. Girls have been known to be unfaithful too. Someone said they hate how guys mostly care about looks and they want girls to be skinny, how many of those celebrity "beauties" do you see with fat guys ? Or "ugly" guys that teenage girls don't fantasize about ? I mean generally it's mais guys than girls with these types of things but it's not really exclusive to guys.
Yes guys do have things that aren't good and they're generally mais obvious than they are in women but implying these are things that only guys do, well they make you seem worse than guys for one thing, generalization, you're generalizing all men to be like this when not all of them are. I can understand when you're working from experience but saying all guys are like this is just mean
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Thank you! I agree with you 100%. I don't like when people generalize like that. Not ALL men are like that, and some women can be that way.
MalloMar posted over a year ago
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BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
Bluekait said:
I don't like how they stereotype women. They have such expectations of us. We aren't hard to handle. Just tell us we're pretty, buy us a cupcake, and say 'I amor you'. We don't expect you to be Johnny Depp so don't expect us to be a FREAKING model. Another reason is that they want to have sex with us every single day. Women are people too. I have lost half my guy friends because they believe that a woman should cook, clean, and be good in bed. I am no longer friends with them, especially they sexually harassed me.
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posted over a year ago 
BlondLionEzel said:
Being a guy myself (and raised por a single mother) I came to learn that not all men are horrible people!
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yea some men are very kind
sieluvzsoul posted over a year ago
kassin said:
I hate when guys always feel like you owe them something and that they come before a women. I want a man who treats his girlfriend like he would his own mother
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LGYCE said:
One is that most of us refuse to criticize ourselves on perguntas like this because a lot of us think we're so awesome. Also, I despise our apparent inability to apologize. Lastly, I hate that so many members of my sex have been so thoughtless and cruel that this pergunta even needs to be asked.
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Siren-Lamia said:
Their hairiness.
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posted over a year ago 
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lol
cutiepie0310 posted over a year ago
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xD also something not that attractive lol xD
Nerdbuster2 posted over a year ago
kaboomgirl said:
Everything lol. That's why I'm into girls.
I'm so so sick of hearing "not ALL men". Like, come on. Of course not every single man out there is terrible, but it doesn't need to be emphasized 24/7. Here's an example of men: if you had a bowl full of candy, and you knew that 1/5 of them were poisoned, would you pick up a handful and eat them?
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So if were to make the same generalization about women you wouldn't be offended?
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
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it's just hard to distrust only some men, or just distrust everyone in general (which, actually, I do a little), when you've been exposed to the disgusting ways of some men, and have had little exposure to the good. Also, having had mostly good experiences with women and people of every other gender besides male.
kaboomgirl posted over a year ago
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^Well in the case of distrusting people generally that's something you and I have in common. But I guess I go about it somewhat different then.
BlindBandit92 posted over a year ago
cutiepie0310 said:
When they think they can stop trying when they get the girl. Some jjust don't put in the same effort in keeping her as they did getting her. :/
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x-Yumi-x3 said:
Yea cause all men are like that and girls are perfect.
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16falloutboy said:
Only thing is that some guys don't respect women and treat them like toys.
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uploaded900 said:
I hate guys that feel that they must be dominating over women, objectify women, and have no respect for them. Fuckin hate those kinds of men.

Also students show that women are just as perverted as men too
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posted over a year ago 
MarineHolocaust said:
qualities i hate about guys = everything
qualities i hate about girls = everything
lol jk i dont hate anything about guys specifically nor girls specifically
stop with this whole gender fight on here though this aint a damn war why are we generalizing guys in the first place
like..... why was this pergunta a good idea those qualities can apply to all people
there are plenty of girls like that too
i cant debate rn im fuckin tired but quit it the lot of u
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