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I need your advice,please:'(

I'm a 15 years old girl who's having a weight issue.I'm 170 cm,but my weight is only 38 kg.I know I'm too thin,but it's because of some genetic issues.My mum has a physical just like me when she was young,so no matter how lot I eat,I can't even gain 1 kg.I'm very grateful of that but because of that,I've been calling names like skeleton,living corpse and many more.Even my Science teacher calls me a skeleton.One of my mum's friends said I have no butt,which makes me cry.I may look like a tough girl on the outside,but I'm too soft on the inside.I act a little tomboyish,but I could easily cry because of that.I always think that nobody loves me and they just want me to disappear from this world.Can somebody give me an conselhos on how to go on with my life even if it's full of sadness?
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Thanks for all the respostas guys!I really amor it!:')
miyuna-chan posted over a year ago
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jessy_an said:
You're normal ._.
I am 40 and 16.....
Don't worry world makes fun of everyone!~
Even of a honest person's too. Just ignore the world~
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posted over a year ago 
Monsterka said:
Come on! You don't have to have butt like Kim Kardashian to feel attractive.... think about Yourself like about some with subtle and ethereal beauty, like model or ballerina :)
That mom's friend was unbelieveably tactless and cheeky, she should rather kiss ur bunda instead commenting it xDD

Don't never feel bad because You are not like others, or not perfect in their eyes... without diffrences world would be boring, You have to accept own uniqueness and don't give a damn about nasty comments.

The truth is, they have problem with themselves, not with You. Who normal, criticize others for apperance? It's Your genes, You can't change this. Probably they insult ya to feel better than You to improve own self-esteem this way.

seriously, they all are not worth Your tears and nerves. Trust me, that You're pretty in Your way and have lots amazing features even though You are very skinny. Besides, You can eat a lot, without getting fat! that's very comfortable, many ppl would be jealous (;
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posted over a year ago 
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I absolutely agree with you!
SummerThunder posted over a year ago
snsdlover4ever said:
People probably just call you names like skeleton or living corpse because they have issues too, and think that they'll feel better if they put other people down. Your science teacher probably just says it as a joke, but I understand why you would get sad at that. My mom says I have no behind either, but it doesn't affect me since I already accepted that. No one wants you to leave this world, trust me. Even if this is the first time I'm "meeting" you, I don't want you to leave. Life is never going to be easy, so just try and get through this por standing up for yourself. Tell people, "I know that I'm thin. So what? Will my weight affect your life in any way? Is being me a problem? Pay mais attention to yourself rather than me, because I couldn't care less about what you say about me." Then walk away. I tried this before, and people stopped teasing me. Hopefully, this helped, because I'm not that good at giving advice. :)
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posted over a year ago 
x-Yumi-x3 said:
Don't worry about what people say they will say anything to get you down. Be happy of your size, don't ashamed, cause if their commenting about your weight/size they obviously wish they could be your size. Take it as a compliment my dear.
One dia people are saying I'm fat the seguinte I'm to skinny.
Im just like fuck it. I weight 130. Psh
((There are lots of ways for you to gain weight, it'll just take mais than eating alone.))
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posted over a year ago 
IsidoraSmiley said:
I know everyone says this but you can't let those things get to you...The people that call you names probably feel like they are too fat or skinny themselves and it is better to insult you about it than to except the fact. Since I never tried to gain weight, maybe you should talk to a doctor. Or ask your mom how she got through it.
Anyway, you have to stay positive - most girls wishing to be thinner and loose weight and you have mais or less what most of us all want! :)
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posted over a year ago 
LSP_98_Pigs said:
Hi,
Listen I'm in ano ... and I way 23 kilos I am 140 cm People are always picking me up or making lame jokes like "You weigh as much as my baby sister etc." Well I would rather no I'm health and a little bit to skinny then not healthy and really skinny! So I ask you are you health?
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posted over a year ago 
kpop4everlover said:
Well people like this will appear somewhere in life but as you get older you will see how things will change , you go to different schools , get jobs etc. Life is a path full of obstacles and if they tease you just give a smart reply back to make them have nothing to say. You have friends and family who will amor you no matter what , those people are just not understanding , some are nice some are mean. But people might just be joking , I think your science teacher is just joking but after a while you might think differently , just do what you are doing and ignore all the bad things.
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posted over a year ago 
summer2987 said:
just ignore them. It may seem extremely hard at first, because you might think their right and you shouldnt look like you do. but just ignore them and think about you and how you feel about yourslef minus all of them.


and hey, if you wanna gain some weight for YOU , then go right ahead.


and if you dont because you like how you look that is fine.


but if you change for all of them and not for yourself , then no.
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posted over a year ago 
pipiqueen said:
i have a weight issue too!but it's waaaay....better than being overweight!besides, thin people are actually much healthier and stronger than others!
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posted over a year ago 
EgoMouse said:
Hmm...you're a little taller than me and almost half my weight .__.
Well, when it comes to any issues, I like to write them down and express my feelings of it (doesn't have to be public on Facebook, just in a journal is fine). Then afterwards, come up with solutions or address the problem. Problems don't simply go away.
The body likes to maintain its weight. Within six months in total. So if you gain weight in those six months, your body will recognize it as your "standard weight". You can try that and patiently gain weight slowly but surely. Your genetics though seems to not want to store fat. It can be unhealthy, you can talk to your doctor about it.
As for solutions, you can talk to these people about how it makes you feel. However, this is easily said than done. Not everyone will listen or stop.
The best solution is to try accept yourself. No matter what people say about your weight, it won't affect you. Accept that you were born genetically this way. Some people would be jealous of it. Then, I'll probably try to make friends with people that accept you, to get rid of the loneliness.
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