I tell them that I'm asexual so they shouldn't take it personally. I just don't do relationships.
I'd also inform them that if I said yes to their encontro, data request that I probably wouldn't be much fun as I don't like kisses and I don't care for hugs.
Yup. I'm 19; haven't had a date--because I've never wanted one. I've never had a crush (unless you count my joking crushes on fictional characters). Though I'm not entirely apposed to being in a relationship, if someone really wanted me and could deal with my hatred of any physical contact than I'd give them a shot.
So, what if... you're a decent person with decent looks and you like the idea of being with someone... yet you never have in any type of way? What would that make that person? Anti-social/afraid? Not ready/not willing to take risks? Oh man... I just figured myself out. It all makes sense now! >_>
Be honest, but don't be mean about it. Just tell him/her that you don't feel the same way right now. You may grow to like them, but those feeling have not developed yet. Or you could say that you are not interested in dating at the moment and would like to just stay friends for now. If you are just coming out of a relationship say that you want to wait awhile before you encontro, data someone else. Just don''t lead the person on if you are not interested. Just to better help you. How old are you? Are you allowed to date?
that's happen to me with "I like you" (not "I amor you") and every time I've just like shut down and not addressed it and left the room as fast as possible and then avoided the person for a week - a mês
i usually say "thank you", "I know" or "mmkay" but thats usually like friend amor not romantic love, and i'm not quite sure which one your talking about but tbh i say the same things for both.
It depends on their looks and coração if they have that I'll give the poor boy a chance he must be having problems for him to like me I'm just ..... So unlikeable
Ehh...well, it's happened (just like, not love) then I ended up saying something along the lines of "I'm really sorry, but I don't think I'm ready for a relationship right now". I mean I'd never string someone along, I'd rather just cut them off. I felt extremely horrible about it afterwards though :l
I'd say "are you just trying to make me feel worse about myself?" cause generally when people tell me that they just laugh in my face and say "aw you're so gullible no one would amor you."
"Love"? That has got to be serious. What? Should I say, "Thanks. Please keep the amor so you may not be short of it for yourself"? <-- It's rather rude. Well, I'll just say that I appreciate it. (though I may not be able to pull any warm smile at that. Just expressionless/indifferent.)
Ugh, this has actually happened to me before, and it was horrible! DX It may not sound that bad, but I really didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings, and everyone around me was pressuring me to be his girlfriend. Anyhoo, that's enough of that. What I would do is tell them honestly that I like them, but just as a friend.
why would i even hint that i do, it would just keep their hopes up. and that is messed up. i wouldnt want them always thinking " maybe she likes me" but i would want them to just get over me and like someone else.
