i need conselhos from nice, considerate ppl here plz & DONT CRITISIZE MY TYPING its faster

She doesn't like/love your sister anymore than she loves/likes you. Yes. We all have attitudes, no one is perfect. And if she's looking for a "perfect" child, she is not going to get one, because (like I said before) no one is perfect, why wont she let you live with your grandma? If you feel uncomfortable there, then why doesn't she just let u stay with your grandma?

I know exactly what you're going through. My mum loved my little sister a lot mais then me, sometimes i think she still does. She would always stick up for her even when she was in the wrong, would never listen to me and always gave in to my sister when i was told no.
You're 14, don't run away. It will be the worst decision of your life. I ran away, i spent 2 years on the streets doing drugs, being dependent on alcohol to keep warm and doing things i am not proud of just to make a couple of quid to get something to eat. For the past 4 years i have had a steady relationship, have a início and a little boy of my very own who i adore. I do not want you to go through the same shite i did back then, it was absolutely terrible and i fear i will go back there.
1. you have nowhere to go indefinately, a friend may put you up for a few days or weeks, but after that what's your plan?
2. you are still in school, you have no grades, no experience, how will you support yourself if you can't get a job to earn money?
3. living on the streets or with "friends" can be very dangerous business, you could get hurt, mugged, even raped and killed. DO NOT RUN AWAY.

As i've gotten older and a mother myself i now understand what your mother is thinking. Your sister is younger than you, YOU are the adult, YOU are supposed to know what is what, what the rules are and how to adhere to them, to be teaching your younger sister por example.

If you feel the way you do, you should sit you mum down and talk to her about it. She will listen, she will understand and you can figure out a way to deal with it por compromising with each other.

No offense but I am having a bit of a hard time understanding you. Okay,so your mom likes your younger sister mais and you always had an attitude and you feel sorry that you aren't the perfect daughter. You hate your mother and apparently she hates you. You want to live with your grandma but she (I am assuming your mom) doesn't let you even though she is walking distance from you.

I think you need to talk to your mom and tell her your feelings. Also,you THINK she likes your little sister more. She might not. But really...talk to your mother.

I think you should try talking to her, openly and honestly, and listen to her. A lot of things can be settled through talking and trying to understand the other person.

Eugh I feel your pain. My entire family practically worships my little sister and every time I even start to open my mouth I get shut down almost immediately. (and people wonder why I don't talk often).

The best conselhos I can give you is either:

a. Try to approach your mother, taking extra special care to avoid sarcastic phrases and calmly state how you feel. If she interrupts you to argue, just listen -don't start yelling, just hear what she has to say, and respond as maturely as you can manage (I know it's really difficult, trust me, I do, but if you start screaming at her she's not going to listen and nine chances out of ten you'll cause her to respond childishly and then you just have a big mess). Hopefully if you're able to communicate your feelings and explain that your sarcasm/attitude is just a part of who you are, then maybe she'll be a bit mais lenient.

b. Just stop giving a damn about what she thinks altogether.

c. Talk to your grandmother and see if she's willing to let you stay and maybe even get her to talk to your mother.

I know you probably don't want any religious answer, but I gotta put one. I don't have any siblings, but I can kinda sense how it feels for you. Things like these just communication with your mom and God. You're probably wondering, "What does God have to do with this?". Well, first off, He's involved with everything! Second, He can help you with these any kind of situation. Just pray and ask for help with it. I can kinda sense others personality and their feelings, and I think you just naturally have attitude. My mom has it, and it just brings out her angry/grumpy side most of the time. You might have it but I don't know. Like I said, communication is most important in this certain situation. Just talk to you're mom and sister about it and they should realize what's up and hopefully it should slowly get better if you just keep talking. God will help you out, He helps everyone out.

Again, I'm sorry to be that one guy to get religious. I hope things get better with your family and I'll also pray for you.

God Bless!

when I had to go through this stuff (I still am) its important to remember that even if your parents really don't like you, theres always gonna be someone out there who does. maybe its your best friend or that guy you have a thing for at school. and if you were to run away, think about what you would be doing to them. just stand your ground and fight your feelings! but whatever you do, don't run away. just tell your mom. I know im going from one thing to another, but im just trying to make a point and doing a terrible job at it. yeah, but still. here, to make you feel better, heres a picture of len.

Well when I had a mom , she never particularly liked one of us mais . My dad also never did either . And I think that it's rude and disrespectful to your parents to want to mover with your grandma . You parents amor you and moving would just make them feel how you feel right now .