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Need Relationship conselhos stat! >.<

so here's the story. I just started dating my bf he's cool and a real sweetheart...but i feel he's a bit clingy or needy. i mean we were on the phone and he was like 'What are you doing?' 'chatting' 'with other guys?!?!?' 'no' 'dont lie' 'im not' then like a few minutos atrás i was like 'hey babe im tired night' and i went to bed. Then he skypes me so i answer. 'hi baby what's up?' 'i thought you were sleeping...and whats with half the coração note?' (i had this note i put up a few months atrás that read without you im half a heart...forgot to update it) 'i was...' 'dont lie to me babe.' 'im not and the note was up months ago' so i go to change it...but for some reason skype put the old one back. 'Why'd you put half a coração up again?! are u unhappy with me?' 'no. i amor you' then he went to bed...but would you say hes needy? and what should i do to stop him from atuação this way?
 liakarad1 posted over a year ago
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Zeppie said:
You say you guys just started dating...so in my opinion, if he's atuação like that in the very beginning...then it does come across as odd.

It depends really how he says it. He could be just teasing and playing with you, but if you feel like it's going beyond teasing, then definitely just tell him straight up that you're not comfortable with all the questions.
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thanks ^_^ and i also think he's not joking about it
liakarad1 posted over a year ago
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Then definitely tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he doesn't change his attitude then he's selfish and doesn't respect your wishes. Good luck with it all ^^
Zeppie posted over a year ago
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Well maybe ha has had stuff happen to him in the past and is afraid....Did you ask him about his past relationships... Make sure you are being fair also, he could have had something happen in the past and he is just really emotional. That might be why he does the things he does :)
LovableXNerd posted over a year ago
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Hmmm...he did say his ex cheated O.o
liakarad1 posted over a year ago
EgoMouse said:
What I would do: Dump him, he reminds me too much of my psycho ex-girlfriend that was too clingy. Couldn't stand her. Would not encontro, data him even if he was good at sex or something. Though, he's kinda cute in a annoying, weird bunda way.
My advice: I would find out if he had past relationships. He could of had a girlfriend(s) that cheated on him.
He's likely not ready for a relationship either way. Relationships without trust is a waste of time.
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thanks ^_^ and yes his ex (of 2 yrs) cheated
liakarad1 posted over a year ago
Book-Freak said:
I would call that controlling, not clingy! You need to be straight with him about the boundaries of your relationship - not only is he calling you a liar, but implying that he doesn't want you talking to other boys, which he has no right to do. He needs to know that he does not need to know who you talk to and cannot control who you hang out with. If he can't respect this, you should consider ending things with him.
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