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This is serious, please, please, PLEASE help me!!!!!

lately ive been really depressed and sad about loads of different things (people at school being nasty, upset about the way i look and family arguements) but recently it started to get worse and i started to cut my self...... i dont want people to think im a sick person my harming myself but i just cant stop now what should i do????


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How come that every time some one says to tell your parents, why are you telling them you can't? They aren't going to help you if you keep saying you can't.
Bluekait posted over a year ago
 Directioner470 posted over a year ago
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rileyferguson said:
Tell your parents or relatives
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i cant
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
adultswimperson said:
You need to see a therapist right away, and if your parent's found out you'd be put in a mental hospital.
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A MENTAL HOSPITAL!!!!!????? YEAAHHH THANKS..... THAT MAKES ME FEEL ALOT BETTER!!! :'(
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
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i wouldn't go as far as a mental hospital but you would need to see a psychologist of some sort perhaps
Weasel1999 posted over a year ago
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they're not mental hospitals. ive been in a "mental hospital" before. it's not that bad. it's quite helpful
Vintage_Rose posted over a year ago
simpleplan said:
You should tell your parents.
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i cant
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
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How about a relative or a friend.
simpleplan posted over a year ago
Sylvia_Puffin said:
Tell your school consoler. They're one of the only people who can't tell you that they won't help you. Plus, they can actually make you feel better.
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ok i might try that ty x
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
Chewfjkd said:
Don't cut. There is no point. Call a hotline for help, or go see your school consilor or seek comfort in a hobby.
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However, I wouldn't tell your parents if I were you. They would probably send you away. Just find a hobby you enjoy to wean yourself away from it. I hope this helps.
Chewfjkd posted over a year ago
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yeah it does help alot THANKS :)
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
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Anytime.
Chewfjkd posted over a year ago
PoemGirl said:
Message Me it will be worth it..
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sure xxx meebo???
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
herpinaderpson said:
is it just me or has self-harm suddenly got popular?
don't be mad at me, i've cut too. here's something it taught me.
it doesn't mean you should be the one who's sorry when the others treat you like shit. it's all about seeing this.
i mean, why should you harm yourself when the others are the assholes? just turn around, look back at them and cadela, puta slap the shit out of them. because that's how life works.
about the family issues, all i can say is just know that it's gonna be over..someday. family issues is a sensitive point, and i don't really know what conselhos to give about it.

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ok thanks for the conselhos means alotxxxx
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
sha123shay said:
i think u should tell your parents and mybe they can help

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icant
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
MyBlueDragon said:
i've understood that u don't wanna talk to your parents. but here's what i would do if i were u. i'd find something i was really good at, or just find something to be good at. like singing, violão, guitarra or maybe a sport. i'd sign up for lessons/trainings and work my bunda off. from this there would come at least 1 great thing, maybe 3 if i'd dare.

1. it would take my mind off of everything (this is most likely 100 % sure)

2. maybe i'd get to know new ppl to just live and be happy with. that way i would get through the shit in school since i know i've got friends beside me.

3. when i get really good at what i've decided to do i would as discrete as possible show off like a boss. just to make them jealous :3
if idiots say something mean i know i've succeded XD if they go silent i've also succeded. I CAN'T FAIL! :D

if you're already good at something then u can use that as an escape and maybe show off a little ;)

sorry if it doesn't help u. i only know what would help me ._.
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it he alot thank u soooo much i might take up gymnastic classes im very good at gymnics thanks again xxxxx
Directioner470 posted over a year ago
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i'm cheering for u from my rightful place :) that means, right here~ np btw ^^
MyBlueDragon posted over a year ago
johnlemon said:
Well I have no experience with cutting, but I'd say if you don't want your parents to know, you should stop. There are other ways to let out your stress. I recommend talking to a close friend or a school counselor. Just remember, things will get better.
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Draculaura10 said:
Tell someone and work it out. There is no need to cut yourself! Think of the good things and life, and if you can't think of things, find one! There's always something out there
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sMCCarthyTV said:
Please don't cut yourself okay? Because that's not gonna fix anything. There is nothing to be mad at yourself because of the way you look eather. You are not ugly or anything. If there is any piece of adivce to be given about not feeling ugly is to look at yourself in the mirror and just smile. Smiling can really make you forget about the bad times and the bad thoughts about your appearance. And I can understand bullying being really annoying. You're probably going to say "What the heck are you talking about?" when I give you the answer to your bulling issue but the way I think of it is that if you get bullied then you're being drawn into a chellenge between you and the person how is giving you trouble. To win the challenge you need to keep your self estem up por showing them that nothing they say doesn't matter to you and if you give into the bullying than you're just giving them what they want and letting them win. As for your family problems, I would say maybe not letting the arguements get out of hand and if they do get out of hand, try cooling down and just walk out, forget about the argument and think about something possitive and just talk to your parents about maybe doing something fun so they can also forget about it. Hope this stuff helps. And if none of my conselhos works then I can't really help but best of luck :)
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darange said:
You HAVE to tell your relatives or parents! You have to stop cutting yourself, I know that people think it makes the depression and stress go away but it doesn't you will just want to cut yourself more, if your parents find out from someone else you will probably be sent to a "residential treatment facility", I'm sorry if this made you feel worse but you have to stand tall tell your parents or relatives, I hope this helps
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And don't say you can't! Just like darange said, you HAVE too. They will get mad at you if you don't tell them right away and they have to know either way
Bluekait posted over a year ago
laura199627 said:
Talk with someone about how you feel., you´ll see it will help a lot.
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BlackRShooter6 said:
i've been through depression many times and i can tell you....it sux (sorry for the language) all you can do is smile at ur enemies (it kills them, really!) and if they hit u or anything, jz stand up to them! Dont be a doormat. People always take advantage of those type of people. You are not a vegetable so, don't cut yourself either as what's the use?? It's just hurting yourself for no reason. As they say 'Life isnt about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning how to dance in the rain'
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cheering for you :) Don't give up!!
BlackRShooter6 posted over a year ago
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