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Guys i need your help....

I don't care if you hate me for asking these perguntas all the time. But i hate meself, and i don't think i'm good enough for anyone, even Keith.


Do you have any idea how to help me to not hate myself???


I really hate this feeling... I just think everything i do isn't good enough and i really need help, and i can't talk to my parents about this!
 XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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XxEmolovexX said:
Hun dont hate yourself, i've seen your posts on fanpop, and even though i dont personally know you i know you're a good,kind person.

I feel exactly how you do, im worthless, nothing i do is good enough for anyone, my family ignores me and always pay attention to my brother.

But my friends on here helped me, just.. dont feel that way please. I've seen ya around and you're very nice and sweet. You are good for someone, you just havent met the right person, trust me youll find someone. Just dont think about youself like that because it hurts me cause i know what a sweet, kindhearted, lovely person you are.
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simpleplan said:
Find something you are good at.
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I'm good at nothing!!!!!!!!! DDDx
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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Yeah xD
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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That one was epic XD
simpleplan posted over a year ago
KitKatLex said:
Read Harry Potter, that should make you feel better.
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 Read Harry Potter, that should make you feel better.
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I can't get it any where, plus i don't like HP.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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HP always makes me feel better X3
simpleplan posted over a year ago
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Saving picture!
BeastBoyCahill posted over a year ago
Hermione-Fan361 said:
Look at this picture:

Now Laugh. :)
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 Look at this picture: Now Laugh. :)
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I couldn't even force a laugh
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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I amor leitura respostas on this website, I always find some cool pictures to save!
BeastBoyCahill posted over a year ago
BeastBoyCahill said:
It's not true!
End of story!
P.S. It's not true.
P.P.S. That's not right.
P.P.P.S. You shouldn't hate yourself.
P.P.P.P.S. And that's because it's not true.
P.P.P.P.P.S. What do you mean NOT EVEN for Keith? I though you liked him...
P.P.P.P.P.P.S. Still not true!
P.P.P.P.P.P.P.S. This is getting annoying, isn't it? Okay, I'll stop. But seriously!
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posted over a year ago 
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Yup i amor Keith to death... but i'm clearly not good enough for him v_v
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
SoulResonance said:
you can talk to a friend and that might make it better, but i think you should talk to your parents first and maybe see about going to therapy or something. i know that you think that you can't talk to your parents about it, but trust me, you can and it will turn out for the better if you do. a good friend of mine, most of you know her i think, was having the same problem until she finally went to therapy about it, and she's doing a lot better now and gaining some mais self confidence and self worth and she's only been in therapy/treatment for a week. i know that its a difficult thing to do, to tell people how you feel about something like that, but it will help you in the long run. ^^
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I tied telling my parents and they told me "Be happy!!! now go clean your room"
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
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^ then maybe talk to a school guidance consular or someone similar. A guidance counselor should be willing to help you.
SoulResonance posted over a year ago
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I'm homed schooled and only have 1 friend T_T
XxKeithHarkinxX posted over a year ago
bubblegum_kiss said:
you ARE good enough!!! seriously dont put yourself down like that!! things seem bad right now but theyll definitely get better! gotta stick with it and be tough! >:( i think you should try to talk to a friend about it. its most likely just a phase where you feel like this. but if it keeps going on and you feel so horrible like this, you might want to go see someone like professional, cause its important. DONT HATE YOURSELF! seriously its really unhealthy and theres no reason to!!!
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jester616 said:
I'm sorry that your parents were dismissive of your feelings. It's not helpful being told to be happy when you're feeling so low.

Almost everything you've written I've also dealt with, and as counter-intuitive as it sounds, sometimes you just have to ride out the low moods.

But total disclaimer, I am on anti-depressants, and that has helped. If that's what you need to do, then your parents must help you. If not them, then a school counselor, as someone else suggested.

Listening to música has also usually been a big help to me.

Please don't think you're worthless. You're young and have so much ahead of you. What you're experiencing now does not define who you are.

And for what it's worth, I've been enjoying your many contributions here. I think you'll see that a lot of people here feel that way about you.
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Ok, I just read that you're home-schooled. Have you tried looking at something like Web MD? At least it will give you a place to start.
jester616 posted over a year ago
adaug said:
1.Count to 10.
2.Think of something you like/love (there's always something you like/love).
3.Calm down.
4.Sit down.
5.Close your eyes.
6.Breathe.
7.Think about the song "Good life"From One Republic.(If you didn't hear it,listen to it)
8.This is your life!YOUR life!Don't let anyone turn you down!Smile.And think."This is your life!In 80 years,You're in heaven or hell!FOREVER!"So just,Believe,Have faith,and Smile.Don't hate yourself,You have flaws,EVERYONE DOES!But that's no reason to hate yourself!I used to think my life was over when my friend left for 5 months,but you know what I did?I believed,Had faith,and smiled.I didn't care about my flaws!And soon enough,I had another friend.
Everyone cares about you!
remember:Believe you'll get through it!Have Faith in yourself!And Smile,smile everyday!
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posted over a year ago 
dreamfields said:
This is one of those perguntas thatis hard to answer online. You say that you have one friend. Is there something the two of you enjoy doing? It will be helpfull to concentrate on what you enjoy doing. It will give you less time to think about the bad.
I don't know your age, but are there any group activities you could get involved with or maybe a youth group. Sometimes being part of a group and feeling appreciated can help.
If you go to the doctor, you should tell him how you feel. It could be a physical problem that is causing your feelings.
Now my personal opinion is that you should know that God made you, loves you and wants you to yourself. You have value just the way you are and what you will become.
I know it's not the same as having someone there, but if you ever need to talk about something, you can always send me a message and I'll get back to you as soon as possible.
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"to amor your self"
dreamfields posted over a year ago
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