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I need some advice......

Well one of my friends had this guy over recently who is a ano older than her and he asked her to have *** with him and he touched her in places... so me and my friends tell her she probly shouldn't hang out with him anymore because she still wants to be his friend.. and in the bible it says friends are supposed to help other friends but she won't listen to us.. soo wht should ii do?!?!
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does your friend want to be in a realtionship with this guy?
bubblegum_kiss posted over a year ago
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well the thing is he already has a girlfriend........
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
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she is 12!!!!!!
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
 xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
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hetaliaitaly said:
well yes sometimes it is good to listen to your friends but you cant make her change her mind just wait till she figures it out herself
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thx i guess she'll learn from her bad choices.
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
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yep
hetaliaitaly posted over a year ago
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Then again, she should be watchfull. What if this guy tries to rape her or bullies her into it?
JaseKS posted over a year ago
ripper124 said:
If she don't then leave it alone in let her suffer the pain. (but thats just me)
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thx 4 the conselhos
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
JaseKS said:
I'm sorry, but did you seriously beep out the word sex?


Okay, down to business.

This is a little thing I like to call an "Abusive Relationship". Touching her in her... wherever he touched her, is considered sexual assault. She won't listen to you because the victims in abusive relationships typically don't realize they're being abused. They narrow down abuse to hitting, when emotional abuse such as that is equally as dangerous.
He may have been a bit... ahem... exited that dia and asked. If this is true, and he get's the picture (which is that your friend does not want to sleep with him) and he leaves the subject alone, than it was probably just a casual question. If he continues to touch her private areas then you should tell an adult immedeatly. Even if it's embarrassing and your friend will be angry, TELL AN ADULT. Like a teacher or counsler. They will know what to do and hopefully be able to convince her the relationship between your friend and the man is a dangerous one. But if it was just a one-time thing, then I suggest you leave it alone, but be on high alert.

WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T ALLOW HER TO LEARN FROM HER MISTAKES.

Although it is nessecary to do so at times, allowing someone to sexually assault your friend is a bad idea. What if he rapes her? Rape can be a very traumatic expirience, and if that happens, then I can guarentee your friend will never be the same again.
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bubblegum_kiss said:
i think what you should do depends on whether your friend wants to be in a relationship with this guy. if she just wants to be his friend then maybe you should try to talk to her again. if shes serious about him then just leave their relationship alone.
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he already has a girlfriend so im scareed she'll get hurt
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
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oh. in that case if she doesnt listen to you i would probably leave it alone. if she ends up getting her feelings hurt or whatever you should be there for her though, just i wouldnt try to butinto her relationships
bubblegum_kiss posted over a year ago
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But what if it's mais than her feelings that get hurt? What if he sexually abuses her?
JaseKS posted over a year ago
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yea tht was wht i was getting at
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
Ale1152 said:
Just let her do what she wants, you're not in control of her life. If she wants ruin her life, then let her ruin it. It will be her fault for making mistakes in her life.
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since when is having sex with one guy gonna ruin your entire life?
bubblegum_kiss posted over a year ago
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i am letting her do wht she wants but when i give her conselhos she ignores me
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
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she is 12!!!
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
NinaDobrev13 said:
Well if you asked her and she still wants to see him, just have faith she wont be stupid and get pregnant!!

Just give her support, and dont leave her!!
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yess but he could rape her or do stuff even worse to her
xCottonCandyx posted over a year ago
bfflvvh said:
whoa..... wut i wuld do iz confront him with a friend(prefable a male XD)nd be like dont be messin with mii início gurl dude.nd tell ur friend if he tries to rape her... pleZ xcuse madeas language
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 whoa..... wut i wuld do iz confront him with a friend(prefable a male XD)nd be like dont be messin with mii início gurl dude.nd tell ur friend if he tries to rape her... pleZ xcuse madeas language
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