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Why do some people (mainly girls) act like flirting is fun?

I always see and hear girls talking about flirting like it's something to do for fun, like an actual recreational activity. How can atuação like a tease be fun? I honestly cannot imagine what can be fun about flirting. Whenever a girl says something like "Yay! lets go out on the town, flirt with guys, and have some fun" i really try not to think that that girl as a strumpet, but the idea that people who are not whores do that for fun is kind of an alien concept to me.

Haha, strumpet....

someone_save_me posted over a year ago

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

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someone_save_me said:

No idea, but I stopped paying attention at the word "strumpet". For some reason that word is currently cracking me up.

posted over a year ago

Agreed. I started tearing up because I was laughing so hard.

Tdinoahiscute4 posted over a year ago

The word might be better than slut, or whore, or skank because it sounds like an instrument. Trollop's a good word too.

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

TROLLOP XD

someone_save_me posted over a year ago

hetaliaitaly said:

well they just like to but im not gonna judge them just ignore it :)

posted over a year ago

I'm just wondering, from a psychiatric perspective, why they would do such a thing.

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

Jeffersonian said:

I don't know, I personally haven't...probably because I'd be like the worst flirter ever.

posted over a year ago

lol, same.

sunflowerchild posted over a year ago

Why do you flirt so much?

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

mrsspencereid said:

Even though I'm a teenage girl, that concept has always been a mystery to me. I get that it can be fun when you meet a new guy, but really, why flirt if you already have a boyfriend or if you're not really interested? Some girls are just so shallow that they can honestly think of nothing else. I I know mais girls like this than necessary. Thank god I'm not one of them.

posted over a year ago

I'm glad your not like that too.

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

ivoryphills said:

Just like how hanging out with friends is fun: you're socializing and killing time.

posted over a year ago

So toying with other people's emotions is fun or something? It just sounds like a really manipulative thing to do.

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

Yeah, like flirtatious people just want to toy with other's emotions. :-/ Nah, to me, flirting isn't toying with another's emotions or anything like that. I simply believe that flirting is used just to socialize, give-and-get attention, and possibly even make a new friend. I wouldn't exactly know how flirting works because I barely socialize, let alone flirt with strange men, but I seen many cases where women flirt with men and the men knew it was simple fun, no chemistry whatsoever.

ivoryphills posted over a year ago

Sammisaurus said:

I understand where you are coming from, but I don't really think saying "mainly girls" is fair. That may be your case, but I actually know way mais guys who do that sort of thing than girls.

Anyway, I'm not sure. It doesn't seem like something that would be very fun to do. I've never done anything of that sort, but then again I don't really flirt with anyone. Especially people I like. I mostly flirt with girls in a joking manner.

posted over a year ago

I just know allot of guys actually complaining about that and calling girls like that cockteases while i hear girls say doing that is fun. So from my perspective, it seems like girls do it more.

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

Me_Iz_Here said:

I don't know. I honestly don't get it. A bunch of my friends are all like "OMGOMGOMG BOYSSSS!!!!" And I'm just here like "LOLOL internet."

posted over a year ago

Agreed.

taismo723 posted over a year ago

same XD

XxEmolovexX posted over a year ago

cassie-1-2-3 said:

Flirting is enjoyable and it makes you feel great. It's great for your ego and gives you a huge confidence boost.

I see what you're saying, though. I would never flirt with a guy I have no intention on ever seeing again, it just seems like a waste of time. ...Well maybe, if he and I both know we'll probably never see each other again, but never to the point of leading someone on.

I suppose the ones who randomly flirt with anyone are people who are less concerned with the other person's feeling, or don't think the other person would think too much of it.

posted over a year ago

It's good for the ego and boosts confidence. Okay i understand it a little better at least.

MasterOfFear posted over a year ago

Skylen said:

flirting isn't fun, it makes the girl look shallow and stupid...especally when the girl is really bad at it...like me (i rather not humiliate myself publicly on purpose)

posted over a year ago